Boobs

[Doku]

Small boobs, big boobs WHO CARES! I mean I know people care, but why? I think fake boobs are tacky and disgusting (unless you have some type of medical reason for getting them and its not just because you have low self-esteem ). There is nothing more..aesthitically displeasing then a girl with far -spaced -nasty -orange -halves-looking-plastic- feeling- boobs!

Love your tatas ladies! If someone dosen't appreciate your boobs, leave them or tell them to kiss your ***! ^-^ I'm sure you'll find someone who will love your boobs !

 

[Pinky*]

miss roadkill - okies.. this might sound a bit strange but since you're still young in your boob growth (supposedly boobs have a chance to grow even until you're around 24), what might help a bit in the long term is to give the smaller boob a bit of a massage when you have time. seriously! its supposed to help the lymphatic system and increase blood flow to the area so nutrients are more easily delivered to that area (plus some science about increase of natural estrogens during boob massage and such thats beyond me).. its pretty popular in asia, many top notch spas have boob massage programs to help boob growth or aging boobs! seriously, i give my ladies a little squeeze now and then to help them out.. doesn't hurt to try, right?

 

[coke]

you guys are giving me hope..i'm flat chested at 17 but my sister(who's 19) and mother have D cups so maybe in a few years they'll come out from hiding. until then, padded bra's are the only way.

 

[gia0202]

one thinkg to note is if your'e really thin--you probably can a chest and hips later on---- sometimes girels put on 10 pounds but it all goes to womanbly curves, versus a beer gut.

 

[Whitelinen]

It's so sad to hear and see women who think they need a boob job to please men. As it has been said here, appreciate your natural feminity, that's all you need. The ones who can't appreciate that can go for someone else.

 

[FashionGrrrrl]

^ Yes! They are definitely not the most important thing and any man who places that much importance on boobs is probably a pervert anyway, you don't want him.

 

[lam123]

my boobs are flat too
they just near a,,but not a cup yet

i want my figure look more attractive so can you guys tell me what can i eat or do some thing make them bigger?

i am not want big big boobs ,if i have b cup ,i will so happy

p.s.please forgive my suck english ,because i am an asian

 

[gia0202]

fro m what i understand, the reason why european and african women tend to have large breasts is a biological difference. there is nothing you can do except gain weight so your breast can get biger along with everything else.

 

[novella]

I have read and heard that the left breast is usually bigger than the right breast. Interestingly enough, it seems like my right breast is bigger than my left breast. It's not really that much of a difference and asymmetry is quite common. Either way, I'm happy with what I have.

I agree with what's been said regarding women who want to get breast implants in order to please men. It really is important to be comfortable and proud of your femininity, and it is sad that so many women are insecure with themselves. Sometimes the comfort in one's own skin comes with time, and I do know women who regret getting breast implants later on in life.

 

[Whitelinen]

To be honest, if my partner would choose me or love me because of my appearance, I'd dump him. If you have a partner who says you should do something to your breasts, dump him.

Novella, I have noticed the same thing with mine, but the difference is only slight.

 

[gia0202]

i think women focus too much on ftting the ideal. most men look for overall packages.so say a girl has no chest, she probably has great legs, a nice waist,etc. kste hudson is a great example of that. so is lucy lui,

 

[city girl]

I have read and heard that the left breast is usually bigger than the right breast. Interestingly enough, it seems like my right breast is bigger than my left breast. It's not really that much of a difference and asymmetry is quite common. Either way, I'm happy with what I have.

mine are like that! hm i didn't think it was too common

 

[lokert]

wow a 49 pages thread about boobs and no pictures, surprisingly most of the contributors are women.

let's fix that: (thanks daria)
http://img71.imageshack.us/my.php?image=dariawerboy2tt2.jpg
*edited - picture removed due to improper crediting*

Breasts can be a great asset, but in many cases, it's just a bonus. I agree with gia0202, the overall package is more important than this part or that part, though a beautiful breast will help you fetch guys. And big isn't necesserily beautiful. I've seen some ugly fat breast, real turn off, shape matters a lot.(well at least to me).

And I can't stand fake breast.

 

[Whitelinen]

Of course it is great to get a male view of the topic, but that photograph is -at least to me personally - very off-topic. Why don't we just post pictures of Playboy models here then? I thought this wasn't a discussion about the photoshopped breasts. I don't believe showing intimate parts of women's own body in advertising (which that picture, obviously being from Vogue or some other fashion magazine, is) is good. I find it degrading. A woman's body, and therefore also her breasts, should be for her at the first place. Then for the ones close to her and her possible children. In advertising - or fashion world - women's breasts are for others, and that is what I call chauvinistic and degrading. It makes women to be objects, not real persons.

 

[lokert]

looool, you really think that those ads/editorials are made for men, "really she looks great in that dress, i'm tottaly buying myslef this ..uh.. dress".

Sorry, but the editors of most fashion magazine are women, so is the audience of those magazine and same for the ads. So it's not really "chauvinistic", but more of a girl on girl "crime" here. That you find it degrading is a thing, but get real, most women objectify their breasts and body, otherwise you wouldn't have a thread like this in the first place.


(and the picture was from daria"s thread)


ps: and for the record more and more men are objectifying their bodies as well, surprisingly, you never hear anybody complaining of half naked men in ads, surprisingly.

 

[Whitelinen]

It doesn't matter to me who did it, men or women (and at which point did I blame men? I don't think I said so.). I would be saying the same if this was a thread about penis and someone would post a photo of advertising, media, etc of it. It is degrading to use someone's body and someone's sexuality in making money or making clothes look good. The women who objectify themselves are being repressed - and that's because equality still does not exist. Do you objectify your body? Do you objectify your penis? A woman's or a man's body is firstly for themselves, not for others or for selling clothing. I don't mean to be rude, but if you think women think of themselves as objects and that is ok and healthy, I don't want to know what kind of women have you met. With all respect, but I don't understand your point.

 

[lokert]

oh lord, we're getting political now.

No, the women who objectify themselves -that represents 90% of the women- are not repressed, they like their bodies and they like to be attractive. Like it or not we live in a society driven by sex, and everybody wants to be attractive.

As for the equality thing, i'd be very interested to know what european country you live into.

 

[Whitelinen]

In Finland, Scandinavia. Even when our president is female, a man's euro is woman's 80 cents, to illustrate one of the worst problems. You seem to be from France and there it's the same, if not even worse. I am basing this on statistics.

It's funny how it seems to be a curse word if a woman dares to refuse to be sexy for someone else. Probably your world is driven by sex, and yes, for example advertising is driven by sex. But is it right? Should we conform to it? There's violence everywhere, our society is pretty much driven by violence too. Is it ok?

You don't need to objectify yourself in order to feel beautiful and for example like wearing beautiful clothing.

 

[lokert]

mmmm, last time i checked, women were primarily sexy for themselves, then for the social status in their group of female friends, then eventually for a particular guy, and lastly for the rest of the society.


BTW everytime you look at your body and emit an opinon, you objectify it.

 

[Whitelinen]

Well, the last sentence I agree with .

mmmm, last time i checked, women were primarily sexy for themselves, then for the social status in their group of female friends, then eventually for a particular guy, and lastly for the rest of the society.

Care to explain more clearly?