softgrey said:
i know exactly what you mean...
and your post actually got me thinking before about just that question...
is style something you are born with or can it be taught?...
look at all the makeover shows now...queer eye and what not to wear...etc...
practically every magazine has a section devoted to just that subject...
maybe that's a separate topic?...i was thinking of starting another thread...
what do you think?...
First of all thank you for this thread
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I was shocked and pleased to see other people sick of the current cultural state.
My english doesn't allow me to fully express my thoughts but I'll try to make some sense
I think that style can be taught to a certain extent because it has a lot to do with personnality.
I'm 22 and i've noticed how much my style has changed when i left college for university 3 years ago.(I study law nothing to do with fashion BTW)
It was the turning point for me.
I began to develop my tastes in different areas and specially for arts.
When you have a thirst for life, for knowledge you're likeky to find your own style, whatever what your social background is , because you know yourself.
You learn from the others (friends,artists...) but if you're a spectator of your life you'll buy whatever is stuck under your nose. You'll buy Uggs , juicy and the likes because magasines tell you it's fashion, because a star wears them ect... You let others think for you.
I don't know what to think of the makeovers show because I don't watch tv much and when i do i only watch movies.
I doubt that they really help people develop their own style though .
From what i've seen they tend to be very conformist. Telling people what to wear as a fashion magazine would do but I might be mistaken.
I'm from a poor social background and I think that you're more likely to have style if you have access to culture and from my experience poor people have generally (ie it's not always the case) less access to culture but it's not always true.
Style and culture don't always go together too.
Many intelligent and/or cultured people don't developp their own style.
They express themselves in another way and that's fine to me.
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