MulletProof
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yup totally touchy subject and most of it does not matter whatsoever, I've gone back and forth with people going on about 'but traditionally it's a woman and a man and they complement each other for this and this other reason', well yeah they do but thankfully when it comes to upbringing it DOES take any combination of adults to bring up fairly decent human beings, sometimes no combination and just one parent. And simultaneously a traditional pair can bring up some really f*cked up pieces of work. I was raised by two women, one my grandmother, one my mother, until recently had never lived with a man, was it a tragic upbringing? hell no, I had the happiest childhood and for the record, love men, sometimes too much .. other people are raised by two women that are a couple, others by their uncle, others by their siblings, one parent alone, hell some kids are raised by other kids (16 & pregnant anyone? )... big deal, and yes there are different gender traits, that's not even a question and gender equality debates should never go there, it's a waste, but it's not a contest and sometimes you have something and sometimes you don't.
What people fear is the social backlash... what is that poor child going to face in school, among friends, at parties, among colleagues. Well guess what, children have to respond to questions beyond their comprehension at an early age such as where is your dad, why is your mom a certain color, why is your mom x size, are you poor? are you rich?, or sometimes they're just 'informed' (e.g. 'your brother is in a wheel chair' 'you have two dads'). Happens ALL THE TIME. It's everyday life. And yes a kid may feel overwhelmed and ideally shouldn't face that but better toughen up sooner than later because surprise, that's life up until your last day, people questioning you about nonsense and teasing should the opportunity arise or if you just let them.
Stefano is an dumba*s, so much money and opportunities to meet interesting people and learn from them and hear their input over the years, and.. no effect. I will give credit where credit is due, because just like Giampaolo Sgura manages to project accurately through his work his one-dimensional and small amount of cell brains, so does Stefano, no wonder they work a lot together...
What people fear is the social backlash... what is that poor child going to face in school, among friends, at parties, among colleagues. Well guess what, children have to respond to questions beyond their comprehension at an early age such as where is your dad, why is your mom a certain color, why is your mom x size, are you poor? are you rich?, or sometimes they're just 'informed' (e.g. 'your brother is in a wheel chair' 'you have two dads'). Happens ALL THE TIME. It's everyday life. And yes a kid may feel overwhelmed and ideally shouldn't face that but better toughen up sooner than later because surprise, that's life up until your last day, people questioning you about nonsense and teasing should the opportunity arise or if you just let them.
Stefano is an dumba*s, so much money and opportunities to meet interesting people and learn from them and hear their input over the years, and.. no effect. I will give credit where credit is due, because just like Giampaolo Sgura manages to project accurately through his work his one-dimensional and small amount of cell brains, so does Stefano, no wonder they work a lot together...
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