This video is very important and answers many of our questions regarding the objectification of women in media.
The way I see it is this: I personally strongly believe also that what a grown, free woman knowingly does with her body and image is her choice. In an ideal world. However, realistically and very unfortunately, we do not live in an ideal world. We live in a world where the vast majority of men (and women) expect women and girls to be subordinate objects. This is the root cause of violence against women. That's why we have to be very careful and responsible about how, when, where, and in what context to perpetrate images of women (including ourselves) being objectified. The world is totally not yet ready for complete freedom of expression, in the name of art, freedom, irony, or whatever. One day, I hope it will be. But until then our priorities must be protecting our children and educating ourselves and the world, or we are part of the problem. I want feminism to be a responsible and mature cause, not an excuse to do whatever the hell we want because guys-have-been-doing-it-so-why-can't-we.
The way I see it is this: I personally strongly believe also that what a grown, free woman knowingly does with her body and image is her choice. In an ideal world. However, realistically and very unfortunately, we do not live in an ideal world. We live in a world where the vast majority of men (and women) expect women and girls to be subordinate objects. This is the root cause of violence against women. That's why we have to be very careful and responsible about how, when, where, and in what context to perpetrate images of women (including ourselves) being objectified. The world is totally not yet ready for complete freedom of expression, in the name of art, freedom, irony, or whatever. One day, I hope it will be. But until then our priorities must be protecting our children and educating ourselves and the world, or we are part of the problem. I want feminism to be a responsible and mature cause, not an excuse to do whatever the hell we want because guys-have-been-doing-it-so-why-can't-we.
!!! When I was little my mother used to make my dresses. I want to find a tailor who will make my clothes to my own liking. It really isn't that hard. And the result would be a much better fitted look. I work in tech and all the fashion/tech startups are being created by frumpy straight men. It's plain weird. Where the ladies at? I'm not sure. We need to take control of what we want, what we buy and what we wear. It's not that hard. Just joined this forum but surprised at how many people still buy fashion magazines. That's still a thing? Guess I'm in my own world.