yeah I mean....neon would be considered a nu-rave thing but you could totally wear neon in an unexpected way. Besides who cares what other people say? I almost never listen to what others say about style (excluding tfsers who have an idea what they are doing) since most people's ideas are so commercial anyway.
fairy - do you own other pairs of glasses which fit? I would just measure, with a measuring tape, the frames across the bridge from arm to arm and get an idea of the width and ask any potential ebayer to measure from arm to arm and see if it's too big or not. That's all I could think of.....