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Fat Karl
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Another excellent post! I love it and so well said.It's a bit hard for me to explain here, because I feel like it's common sense. There is nothing wrong with knowing your strong sides and weaknesses, why do we want to find jeans that make our butt higher and perkier, legs - longer and leaner, waist - slimmer, why do we choose a haircut that compliments our face shape? Why do we have to put focus on the imperfections (what is up with this exhibitionism?) , when we can present ourselves in a better way? Why do chubby people like to, say, wear super thin stretchy fabric that emphasizes every roll, instead of getting more structured pieces that will sort of gather them and create a nice shape? Btw fat does not = curvy, curvy is about proportions, but nowadays it's a politically correct term used for bigger woman for some reason. Shouldn't fashion and styling teach us how to embrace what we have and get the most out of our looks? My whole life I genuinely want people to look nice, but I feel some just purposely want to put their worst foot forward. We don't see such models dressed properly because : a) it's harder to dress someone who is not slim (and borderline impossible if you are obese), b) stylists don't know what to do with it, c) clothes are done poorly. Have you seen recent Vogue Russia by any chance? I think softer, rounder body is captured so much nicer in comparison to this shoot.
I don't know if anyone is being ridiculed these days, I see big women around carrying themselves like they are beauty pageants, and they should be confident of course. I guess it depends a lot on where you were brought up, what is considered normal on American market, is not normal, say, in Eastern Europe or Asia, and it's not because people are different, it's because there is no culture of healthy eating. To me (and I am not a doctor here) Paloma doesn't look very healthy, especially given how young she is, if I have to be honest with you. We can go back and forth discussing standards, confidence, shame, etc, but we will agree on one thing: people should be comfortable in their own skin, no one should make a comment about how you look, but the point I am trying to make here is 1) I see the side where body positivity is used to justify one's primitive reflexes, 2) challenges any reasonable criticism and is actually harmful for some people in a long run. I think society nowadays doesn't want to be challenged in any shape of form in general, it's constantly asks for approval "Tell me it's ok, tell me I am alright". And lastly, I don't think models should look like regular people, it loses the whole point of the profession, with a real model you don't have do this acrobatics with make-up artist, photographers, stylist, Paloma is a pretty woman for real life, but she is just so awkward on the runway or in most pictures
It really is true. We live in a time now where people are hellbent on tearing down every last standard in decent society to accommodate their bad behavior and to relieve them of their guilty conscience…they think “if only society will stop STIGMATIZING me, I won’t feel so bad about doing or being X, Y or Z!”
Everything now must be de-stigmatized…but what’s the cost? And why? And scarier still…where does it end?
We all look back at pictures and films and paintings of the past - we see the remnants of the magnificent architecture, we see the breathtaking artifacts and relics, we see the beautiful clothes, we hear the beautiful music…and then we look around us and wonder why we don’t live in a world like that anymore.
We live in a world of so much ugliness now. Blatant, nasty, shoved-in-your-face ugliness. And we wonder how it happened? Is it really that hard to guess? We’ve torn down every expectation, standard, norm, every measure of excellence…and all to accommodate whiney, self-centered people. And now, with standards at the bottom of the barrel, we turn around and wonder how we all got in the pig sty…