Asking for permission...
Ladies, I'll be frank:
I sometimes buy rep purses that impulsively or not and I know we all do. Sometimes I want a purse, think about it, but when I get it, I just don't love it. It may be that I am too sensitive to a detail that wasn't done right, or the bag may be perfect but I may not *love* it.
We talk so much about bags here, and when we will buy, and when we get them. But I wish there was a nice way to sell our bags here too, or trade them. I know I don't have 600 posts to be invited to a secret forum. But heaven/husband/computer knows I spend a good hour or more on this forum every day (can you be shy online as well as in rl? LOL).
I do put some of my stuff up on ioffer but I feel uncomfortable selling to strangers there. Sometimes I'll recognize someone from TFS but often I have sold things to people that aren't part of this forum. The community of ladies on here is pretty swell and I wish we could be open to some solution. I think it would make us happy. I would be so happy right now if I re-homed lots of bags that I just don't use, so that I can get the ones I want now, attain the collection of purses I truly love, and get on with my life. Honestly, I hate looking at my closet where 1/3 of the stuff I use and the other 2/3 is like, crammed and hidden.
Even a person with say, 50 posts or 100 posts who is in the know about our providers can show they are serious because they post what they've purchased or because they just know about reps because they've read the threads and keep up. Some of us can't just buy buy buy (I'm in grad school), and I think that affects how much we can post on here. Could we like, list in our signatures things that we're looking to get rid of? I don't want this to turn into a marketplace but I'd prefer to discreetly list things and discuss over PM than to take risks with ioffer or have a stash of "mistakes".
Anyway, just my two cents.
