i just saw the video. it was extremely disgusting. both are to blame. the girl was dancing on him before he started the "simulated r*pe" and seemed to enjoy being all over him. his "simulated r*pe" was disgusting. he took it too far. i don't think even if she had wanted to stop him, she would have been able to. but i agree with an earlier post. what parent would've let their 15 year old child go to a concert to dance on stage with a male rapper who continuously performs songs about smacking a**es and just plain degradation of women. i do believe there are more people to blame than the artist, the girl, and the parents also. the contest should've had an age limit and clear guidelines as to what you were winning and what you would have to do. it was just poorly put together and poorly executed. plus people are acting as if you should expect more of akon. i know i wouldn't.