I love those and agree with most. Thanks for sharing.
I agree that it's always best to go shopping alone - and yes, my mother is the only person I'll take with me! I think it's because tastes vary so much. I know what I like and what I'll wear, someone else with a different style may not "get it". Plus, I like to take my time and go where I wish without feeling weighed down. Control freak? Perhaps.
I also that it is helpful to become friendly with shop staff at the places you frequent. At some of the independent boutiques, the staff (mostly consisting of owners over here, so you know they are passionate about the clothing) truly love the clothes and are able to give lots of advice and help. If you introduce yourself and establish yourself as a regular customer (even just dropping by often, not necessarily buying), you can expect an honest opinion from them, rather than a "Oh yeah, that looks great" to someone who isn't a regular customer.
Love that Karl Lagerfield quote. I find myself either buying very inexpensive items or very expensive items. I always get something unique, either way. The inexpensive ring from the thrift store is different and likely no one will have it, just as the more expensive handmade dress is a one-of-a-kind. Together, they make an interesting outfit with history and a modern flair.
Also love the last piece of advice - when you try something on, it should be so amazing that you love it instantly. No compromise. It's often the pieces I am "eh" about that I "wasn't sure" about in initial reaction.
Some of my tips:
* Dress comfortably, with an easy hairstyle. That way you don't have to worry about "messing up" your hair when you try on different pieces.
* Avoid "sale goggles". Definitely look to the sale section (who knows what you'll find!) but don't buy it because of the price. You should think, "Wow, I love this item!" rather than "Wow, it's so inexpensive!". With all of the sale items you buy that lie in the back of your closet, you could buy an amazing piece that you wear all of the time.
* Especially when in smaller independent boutiques (the type with a very very small selection of staff, sometimes only the owner), don't be afraid to ask the staff questions and build rapport. Introduce yourself, ask them questions about the designer you are trying on, etc. They'll be sure to help you out and next time they will go out of their way to show you what they think will look good on you, etc.
* If you're shopping at a chain store or a store that accepts returns, ALWAYS KEEP RECEIPTS and keep the tags on until you wear it out. Just in case. Although, I always think you should be 100% sure with a purchase before buying it. You want to feel good about what you buy.
* Don't be afraid to buy things outside of your comfort zone (different colors, textures, cuts than you are used to) but always stay true to your style. If it doesn't feel like it could ever be "you", don't buy it. That said, if you try something on that's different from what you usually wear but still looks like you could develop into that style, go for it! Just try not to stray from what feels right -- those pieces are the ones that never get worn. So try new things, wear different things than you're used to... but only buy if they feel like it could be a part of your new style.
I'll add more when I get more ideas.
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