Betinapple
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^ Different people have different rules, but I would include the items you mention. I mention white Ts because you 'have to' have them, but they don't last long. One way to get more out of them is to use them for layering later on ... goes for all tops, really.
I count all basics as "ok" - and not included in the 4-5 items rule.
This might sound a little complicated but...
plain, loose T-Shirts to layer
black pants
jeans
1,2 cardigans
...
are basics for me. You NEED those. I'm not a fan of having 5 white T-Shirts. So I think having 1,2 pair of jeans, 1 pair of black pants, 1,2 white T-s everyone should own. Therefore I do not include those in the list. If one white T gets a hole I will replace it and still have my 4-5 other things.
My 4-5 pieces are luxurious items that have the extra something, that are not basic at all and will make the outfit stand out. For example a fancy handbag, great jacket, leather skirt...
My 4-5 things are expensive items that I cannot buy every week but I have to save the money for... Those are long lasting pieces. Of course I try to buy long lasting basics as well...but they certainly don't cost as much as my 4-5 things ;-)
Hope this makes sense.
Thx for your answers both of you Makes sense. I'm done buying cheap basic items, since I hate shopping for basics and find it boring, so I want to make my basics last. Not that they're really expensive, but I'm done buying my basics at H&M.
I already have most of those basics that I need; one good pair of jeans (I mostly wear dresses), basic tops, cardigans etc. so I think I'll work with those excluded from the 4-5 items, so I can buy new ones when needed. I find a good black dress for both everyday and party use basic as well, but that, black flats and a nice classic handbag will be included in my 4-5 items. I think I'm just gonna start and then see what happens and then change my rules a bit, if needed.
^^^ I very much agree about the black pants... Why is it so impossible though to find the perfect one!
I'm not good at explaning.. My rule kind of is... everything that I can't normally afford is one of the 4-5 pieces. Not that everything else is a "basic". But you get the idea.
I shop with alot more "awareness" now that I follow the rule. I love it.
What you are describing is what I want. I've always had trouble finding the money for the items a bit more expensive, that I would crave, but since I accidently spent my money at H&M and similar stores I couldnt find the money for it even though I had them. I've experienced that I find much more joy in my expensive items that I really had to save the money for and think a lot about before buying them. And I really would rather want 1 good item each or every 2nd month than 10 items pr. month from H&M.