BetteT
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That is a tough one ... and it's a shame that it's keeping you from your dreams.
The challenges are:
1. Live in the midwest in a non-fashion town so there's no industry nor jaobs in the industry.
2. A job that won't help you get into fashion and it's boring and low pay on top of that.
3. You feel dragged down and disenchanted ... so no longer have any energy to do what it takes to move towards your dream.
Well ... it seems to me that if you really want to work in the fashion world you must summon up that energy and do something ... anything ... to move you towards your goal. As long as you just let things happen to you ... instead of taking the bull by the horns and making things happen, then nothing will ever happen. So I'd consider doing some or all of the following (and it will take guts ... but fashion always does
1. Plan to move to a city where you can possibly work in the fashion industry. (N.Y. or Chicago are probably your best bets.) Perhpas a magazine (even a women's mag that has a fashion section), a PR firm that has fashion clients, a fashion photographer's studio ... you have to be creative here. It would probably mean a menial job .... like data entry, receptionist, mail room clerk but if you work it right, there could be chance for advancement. If you are sharp and impress the powers that be, you could eventualy get into a more interesting job where you would learn a lot about what they do. You probably would not have much access to the creative part of it right away ... but if you are observant and ask a lot of questions (without being a pest), you would learn about who does what and what departments and jobs interest you.
2.Yeah ... moving costs money. So that means you have to live on a very tight budget to save money. And you might have to take a second, part time job. And ... it could take years ... but then if you don't what will you be doing instead? Still working hard but hating it ... but with nothing to look forward to.
3. Or .... consider a home based business ... designing fun things to sell to friends at first, and then perhaps set up an E-Bay or web store. Or if you have the eye, maybe buying vintage and funky things at swap meets and garage sales and reselling them. I know several people that are doing very well that way. You'd have to do a lot of research ... to learn how to deal with sales taxes, shipping, inventrory, etc.
4. If you prefer the ebay thing over moving to a "fashion" city... I'd consider community college. Part time ... just to learn what you need to do to be successful. Not fashion classes ... but business classes and in particular entreprenurial studies, where you learn how to set up and run your own business. If you can learn how to make a profit from doing something you love ... what could be better?
5. If the internet/ebay thing is working then you could set your next goal ... perhaps a small shop in your town, or wholesaling to boutiques across the country.
There is a way out of your predicament ... but only you can decide if you want to sacrifice enough to make it happen. It won't be easy ... and it won't happen overnight ... but you can make it happen.
Cetainly it won't happen at all unless you muster the courage to make a plan, take the necessary steps to prepare yourself and then step out there and do it.
The challenges are:
1. Live in the midwest in a non-fashion town so there's no industry nor jaobs in the industry.
2. A job that won't help you get into fashion and it's boring and low pay on top of that.
3. You feel dragged down and disenchanted ... so no longer have any energy to do what it takes to move towards your dream.
Well ... it seems to me that if you really want to work in the fashion world you must summon up that energy and do something ... anything ... to move you towards your goal. As long as you just let things happen to you ... instead of taking the bull by the horns and making things happen, then nothing will ever happen. So I'd consider doing some or all of the following (and it will take guts ... but fashion always does
1. Plan to move to a city where you can possibly work in the fashion industry. (N.Y. or Chicago are probably your best bets.) Perhpas a magazine (even a women's mag that has a fashion section), a PR firm that has fashion clients, a fashion photographer's studio ... you have to be creative here. It would probably mean a menial job .... like data entry, receptionist, mail room clerk but if you work it right, there could be chance for advancement. If you are sharp and impress the powers that be, you could eventualy get into a more interesting job where you would learn a lot about what they do. You probably would not have much access to the creative part of it right away ... but if you are observant and ask a lot of questions (without being a pest), you would learn about who does what and what departments and jobs interest you.
2.Yeah ... moving costs money. So that means you have to live on a very tight budget to save money. And you might have to take a second, part time job. And ... it could take years ... but then if you don't what will you be doing instead? Still working hard but hating it ... but with nothing to look forward to.
3. Or .... consider a home based business ... designing fun things to sell to friends at first, and then perhaps set up an E-Bay or web store. Or if you have the eye, maybe buying vintage and funky things at swap meets and garage sales and reselling them. I know several people that are doing very well that way. You'd have to do a lot of research ... to learn how to deal with sales taxes, shipping, inventrory, etc.
4. If you prefer the ebay thing over moving to a "fashion" city... I'd consider community college. Part time ... just to learn what you need to do to be successful. Not fashion classes ... but business classes and in particular entreprenurial studies, where you learn how to set up and run your own business. If you can learn how to make a profit from doing something you love ... what could be better?
5. If the internet/ebay thing is working then you could set your next goal ... perhaps a small shop in your town, or wholesaling to boutiques across the country.
There is a way out of your predicament ... but only you can decide if you want to sacrifice enough to make it happen. It won't be easy ... and it won't happen overnight ... but you can make it happen.
Cetainly it won't happen at all unless you muster the courage to make a plan, take the necessary steps to prepare yourself and then step out there and do it.
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