cestmagique said:^ It's true I was speaking simplistically, but I didn't really have the time to write out a long message. I don't agree though; to me, beauty isn't marred by frizzy hair or a bit of shine on the skin. If you're really beautiful, there isn't much you have to do by way of upkeep. I mean Tiiu and Ruslana, Jeisa, etc. probably would look just fine even if they caught the flu, ate big bowls of pasta, didn't wash their faces religiously, and so on. In my opinion, the beauty we look upon in these forums is not a product of circumstance-- it's natural good fortune! (damn them ) If it weren't, they wouldn't be so special, because us normal people would get to achieve their level of "physical perfection." On the other hand, someone can have a natural inclination to music, but if they have no dedication or desire, that goes to waste. So I respect those people who can devote themselves to it, and reach beyond what is typical to produce the extraordinary. I can't say that I respect a girl all that much who will exercise and practice perfect skin care to fit societal standards, as I would Bob Dylan! Not that I would disrespect her, but it just doesn't matter all that much to me. Then again pretty faces are just that to me-- pretty faces. I suppose the most important factor, the reason for the differences in our opinions, is how much stock you put in beauty and how much it affects you. Personally I don't care that much. I have fun in the Supporting Cast, but I am not "in love" with the model of the moment like others can be, lol. Sorry if that made no sense. I suppose if we don't come to terms, we can agree to disagree?
I love your comment - and I don't think we even disagree as much as you think - and if we do that's just fine too