Boobs

[mcflyandgemmafan]

To be honest - I LOVE my small boobs!

haha me too! i used to hate having small boobs but now i'm used to them i guess. and this is gonna sound stupid but i seriously thought no one could have boobs as small as me but then i saw gemma and mine are like the same as hers so then i felt better . haha ok i'm done now.

 

[laurlaur]

Mine are about 34/36 A. I developed really early, at about age 11, and then everything stopped. I'm 17 now and I doubt that they'll grow anymore. Sometimes I hate them, especially how people are towards them. A lot of people ask if I'm going to get breast implants and I tell them I'm not sure. When I say no they don't understand why I wouldn't want to. I feel bad about my body sometimes, but a lot of the time I don't because I realize there are other aspects to me than just my boobs.

 

[Anastasia]

Yeah that's the one thing about being a D-cup is I usually will have to get a Large in a top to accomodate my boobs, but then it's too big elsewhere. So I got a medium in a halter top because I thought it would work well, but it was tight in the boob area. I'd rather it be a little tight there and fit well over the rest of my body though.

Button-up shirts are bad, I find that Target has the best though. And I know what you mean about the tank tops.

Totally agree with this post. I'm a natural 34DD, with a small frame, and need a large or an extra large to fit perfectly in the breasts, but then it's WAY WAY too big elsewhere - like gaping under the arms, goofy looking through the shoulders, etc. So I usually wear knit shirts in a dark color in medium, so they fit my frame, and don't bag, and the stretching isn't that noticable.

I also wear a lot of camisoles (JJill has really nice ones in many colors) underneath unbuttoned button-up shirts. Unfortunately, I still show a lot of cleavage - almost impossible to avoid unless I wear a crewneck or turtleneck, and then I wind up with uni-breast - and get a lot of negative comments about implants or being sl*tty

I so agree about getting measured properly. I went for years wearing an ill-fitting 36C, and it turned out I had to lower the band number and up the cup. They look so much fresher and perkier in the right bra, and I like them a lot more. Though it still hurts to see large breasts referred to as udders, or matronly, or slovenly. Elle had a particularly offensive piece on it recently - the only way this woman could love her small breasts was by endlessly bashing large ones, apparently

When looking at other women, I think I'm most draw to a large A/small B, but beautiful breasts can come in all shapes and sizes.

 

[Kimkhuu]

More flat chested models that look fabulous

Erin O'Connor

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Freja Beha (left)

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[Erin]

Mine are about 34/36 A. I developed really early, at about age 11, and then everything stopped. I'm 17 now and I doubt that they'll grow anymore.

There's still hope. I didn't fill out until I was 20.

It's amazing how women can be so defined by their breasts... it's such a man thing... and that's what is so upsetting...

Some of this also comes from the old days when a woman's size was alligned with wealth... the larger the woman, the more regarded as being wealthy she was (more money for expensive food and meals)... it's simply not that way anymore.

That's how I view it, anyway.

 

[Kimkhuu]

^ I think it also has to do with the society's definition of what a "real" woman should look like, the emphasis on boobs.

It's pretty hard to be "confident and flat" when you are under that kind of pressure. Guys tease you, your mom thinks you're underdevelopped, your girlfriends all have breasts and buy lingerie to show their boobs off, and you are stuck with misery.

Fortunately, there are people bright enough to understand that gorgeous women come in all forms and that true beauty lies inside.

 

[Erin]

^ I think it also has to do with the society's definition of what a "real" woman should look like, the emphasis on boobs.

Oh, there's NO doubt about that. Just look at how fast the rate of breast implants/enhancements have gone up in the past decade. We live in a very vain and men-driven culture, if you ask me. I could go on for hours about men and breasts, but I will refrain.

 

[cookymonster]

Totally agree with this post. I'm a natural 34DD, with a small frame, and need a large or an extra large to fit perfectly in the breasts, but then it's WAY WAY too big elsewhere - like gaping under the arms, goofy looking through the shoulders, etc. So I usually wear knit shirts in a dark color in medium, so they fit my frame, and don't bag, and the stretching isn't that noticable.

I also wear a lot of camisoles (JJill has really nice ones in many colors) underneath unbuttoned button-up shirts. Unfortunately, I still show a lot of cleavage - almost impossible to avoid unless I wear a crewneck or turtleneck, and then I wind up with uni-breast - and get a lot of negative comments about implants or being sl*tty

I so agree about getting measured properly. I went for years wearing an ill-fitting 36C, and it turned out I had to lower the band number and up the cup. They look so much fresher and perkier in the right bra, and I like them a lot more. Though it still hurts to see large breasts referred to as udders, or matronly, or slovenly. Elle had a particularly offensive piece on it recently - the only way this woman could love her small breasts was by endlessly bashing large ones, apparently

When looking at other women, I think I'm most draw to a large A/small B, but beautiful breasts can come in all shapes and sizes.

So true! Except when they're really fake looking implants a la Pamela Anderson.

 

[Odette]

I´ve always wondered about the big fascination men usually have about boobs, I mean they're just boobs which are simply a part of the body and well there's nothing more to it. I mean, let's see if I can get this right, they are important because it's like part of the woman body but why should they be more important than beautiful eyes? or a nose a la Nicole Kidman? I will surely prefer a pretty than a good cleavege. I simply don't get it.

I mean, we don't have a fascination about penises in the sense that we don't spend hours talking about them or buying magazines with penises all over just like Maxim has boobs all over. I don't know it's just a part of the body, really don't get it.

 

[crow_watcher]

I cant deny how beauty is partly defined on how large and shape a women breasts are. Its unfortunate but real. However, my view in breast size is certainly the exception. My past relationships (2 to be exact and a long story) was with women with smaller breasts- 34B and 32A. I personally didn't care because it matched their body type. Still to this day I'm friendly with them and they're sexy!

 

[Priestess]

I couldn't agree more on breasts being a part of society's definition of what "real" women should look like. It's hard for a woman to know what she should look like these days. We have surgery to to alter everything about our bodies, from our hairline to our vaginas, apparently everything should be made absolutely perfect. Then we have another wave of people telling us we shouldn't get anything done whatsoever and should love our bodies as they are. Then we have yet another group of people saying that we should change only what we wish to change in order to make ourselves happy. Then of course there's the big debate of whether or not one should admit to having some work done. It just goes on and on and it's impossible for us women (and even men) to know how to be ourselves.

When it comes to breasts, I myself am a 12D (Australian sizing). While they're not exactly big, I'm definitely not flat. I have enough that if I put on a push-up bra I have some great cleavage, but if I wear a normal bra, people don't talk to my chest instead of my face. I think I'm fairly lucky in that aspect. While I still envy both larger and smaller chested girls, I'm actually pretty happy with what I have.

Although unfortunately, I started getting breasts when I was 12, it was a nightmare to be the only girl who had breasts. I hated them with a passion at that time. I think a lot of women have a love-hate relationship with their breasts and their bodies in general. If only we could all be at peace.

 

[Paper Champion]

I think a lot of women have a love-hate relationship with their breasts and their bodies in general.

I definatly agree, personally i have 34DD breasts but am only 5ft 2 at a push. So i find it really hard to find clothes that suit my shape. I go through stages of loving them, because they're so womanly, but on the other hand if im honest they do just get in the way. I always seem to find a perfect dress that fits everywhere wonderfully except for when you come to do the zip at the back and it just wont close at the top (i had this issue this weekend) and if i go up a size i look like a tent so i just cant win hehe.

 

[Anastasia]

[/b]So true! Except when they're really fake looking implants a la Pamela Anderson.

I agree

It may be hypocritical, but my "beautiful in all shapes and sizes" only extends to natural ones. I don't think I like implants. I say think, because I may have unknowingly admired implants in the past, and not known them for what they are

I also have to admit that as a (mostly) heterosexual woman, I am fascinated by breasts. Everything from so small as to be truly flat to the mango-like ones gracing the pages of National Geographic. I honestly think they're all beautiful. There is something so aesthetically pleasing about that curve, little or big. I feel the same way about the curve of the side, seen from the back, and calves/ankles. Reese Witherspoon has awesome ankles. And Rachel Weisz and Scarlett Johansson have gorgeous breasts.

 

[ibimus]

Breast size truly doesn't matter to me. If you have small ones, fine. If you have big ones, fine. Whatever. NO IMPLANTS!!!!! A small-chested girl with confidence is much more beautiful and sexy than a fake-chested girl any day. And I know I'm not the only guy who feels this way.

Thank you for that! I'm so glad to hear that there are some men with realistic taste in women.



Personally, I'm content in a B. Sometimes it's a hassle with low-cut shirts (keep in mind that I'm petite, so ANYTHING large looks odd.) becuase I don't want to look like a tramp, but otherwise, I say go natural all the way. No implants. They look gross anyway. Ever seen pictures of people with implants? They have giant canons inbetween their breasts. Yuck.

 

[devon_jay]

personally, if breast implants are done tastefully and arent humoungous and totally fake looking, i think go for it if its gonna make a women feel more confident. like i have 36A and i might get them augmented to a full B. im 5'11 so my As look very small, and i think a B would look very natural.

 

[kissmesweet]

Honestly, I have A's, but I'm proud of it. I can play sports better. I can wear a halter dress while looking good. For me, it's very flexible. I can always wear a really good push-up bra. I think that people should just be happy with the way they look and ignore what other people are saying. You're all beautiful, inside and out.

... However, if this lets you down terribly then maybe you'll feel more confident with implants.

 

[kissmesweet]

^^ Oh & the VS push-up bras are very good. The wire is nice, I personally hate very padded ones.

 

[Eurasian Mélange]

Oh, there's NO doubt about that. Just look at how fast the rate of breast implants/enhancements have gone up in the past decade. We live in a very vain and men-driven culture, if you ask me. I could go on for hours about men and breasts, but I will refrain.

I disagree. The majority of men I have spoken to have said they despise implants and would much rather date a flat/small-chested woman with confidence rather than someone who felt insecure until she had some plastic shoved inside her t*ts.

I think it is the women themselves who create this illusion that men will only love them if they have huge knockers because every time a group of men has been asked about implants (be it in real life, or online, in a conversation, or in a survey) the vast majority have said they don't like them. And the ones who didn't say "I don't like implants" only said, "I do not mind". It's the same with huge breasts as well; the vast majority say they don't care, a few produce a range that usually goes from B to D or A to C, but no one ever says, "I prefer humungous hooters. Yay for implants!" I would really like to know where these titanic-t*t-loving men are because so far I only see them existing in insecure women's heads.

 

[Erin]

^ That's a very good point.

Still... men are involved even if there's a disillusionment... and I'm not even talking about huge, huge breasts like Pam Anderson... most guys will do a double take if a thinner girl walks down the street with medium-sized breasts, rather they're real or not...

I truly believe that men are the driving force behind the desire to have great breasts. Why would women want to get them done? What do they care if they have smaller breasts? I understand that it's a confidence booster for some... but confidence among women, or men? Men, I would say.

 

[Jadee]

I disagree. The majority of men I have spoken to have said they despise implants and would much rather date a flat/small-chested woman with confidence rather than someone who felt insecure until she had some plastic shoved inside her t*ts.

I think it is the women themselves who create this illusion that men will only love them if they have huge knockers because every time a group of men has been asked about implants (be it in real life, or online, in a conversation, or in a survey) the vast majority have said they don't like them. And the ones who didn't say "I don't like implants" only said, "I do not mind". It's the same with huge breasts as well; the vast majority say they don't care, a few produce a range that usually goes from B to D or A to C, but no one ever says, "I prefer humungous hooters. Yay for implants!" I would really like to know where these titanic-t*t-loving men are because so far I only see them existing in insecure women's heads.

Agreed. I think it's more a competion thing amongst women (the equivalent of who's got the bigger penis for men)
Same thing goes for weight IMO. Majority of men are supposed to be attracted to women with average weight yet lots of women are obssesed with being smaller.


On another note I sometimes would like to remember how it felt when I didn't have breasts. The other night I dreamed that I could take them off with my bra
I'm a tad too nostalgic of my childhood at the moment .