lLOL you're not in a jerk position, you simply had too high expectations

her current boyfriend looks not even half as hot as that " Death of Salvador" guy !
I too think Dita can do much better

but ..whatever makes her happy, I guess !
ParadEyes, I totally love you for being on my side about that. Haha

But yes, Whatever makes her happy I suppose. I just hope that if it's actually a very serious relationship that she's considering taking to the level of marriage, she get a prenuptial agreement. I'd hate to see her go through a divorce again, but on top of that, I'd hate to see someone steal half her posessions/money which she has worked so hard for
And about the p*rn issue. I also don't approve of p*rn and yeah p*rn is p*rn, BUT, I respect Dita very much, and it's not just because it's Dita and I love her haha, but because she doesn't try to hide it. Lots of people try to hide a thing like that or just prefer not to comment when asked about it, but Dita acknowledges that she did it and doesn't regret it because if it hadn't been for that, it's very possible she would have never gotten to where she is if she hadn't, AND she's okay with talking about her past, which includes that. I mean, of course I'd loveee it if she hadn't been in the p*rn industry, but the fact is she was. I guess at least she didn't do p*rn with men... I think I would mind that a lot more because I'd have to see (or know I mean, since I wouldn't watch it haha) her get
"done", and I don't want to see that. Sorry to all if this is really long to you all...just wanted to give my 2 cents on all this.
And going along with what
Dego said, she doesn't claim to be a rolemodel for people. I personally do see her as MY rolemodel, but I can tell you that her p*rn aspect isn't included in what I admire. I admire her dedication and her unwavering efforts to get to where she got to because it was all her. She didn't just get hook ups to get to where she is. I like that she was a small town girl who got to be famous without other people's help really. I also love that when she started out, she would take her own props and things onto the stage herself with no help and would clean up and everything. I admire that she is self-styled, self-created, and very much a LADY and she handles herself so well and leaves an impression in everything she does. I love that although she is SO famous, she is still genuine and definitely not stuck up or mean to fans, but rather, she really cares about what we have to say and doesn't ignore "the little people" but recognizes its because of us that she's where she is...unlike Ava Garter who I must say from personal experience is NOT genuine and actually is quite RUDE to say the least when it comes to fans (me).