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LYNN HIRSCHBERG
Published: August 26, 2007

I don’t like pants. Or I should say, I don’t like wearing pants. The entire jeans revolution of the past decade — the special rinses; the cuts that amplify the derrière or lengthen the leg; the low rise and the boot cut — does not intrigue me. The only time I wear pants is to walk my dog, and I wear them then only when the weather is freezing. Mostly, I use pants as a kind of fatness monitor: a particular pair of very narrow A.P.C. jeans functions like a scale. Twice a week, every week, I try them on. If they’re tight, I cut out chocolate; if they’re loose, I rejoice. Either way, the jeans stay on my body for about 15 minutes, long enough to truly gauge the fit, and then I change into a dress or a skirt. Like I said, I don’t like pants.




One of the ways I retrieve the memories of my life is through the clothes I wore: if I remember my particular fashion obsessions — my uniform for that season — I can vividly recall who and what I was crazy about, the stories I was working on and, most of all, my mood. If, for instance, I wore, as I did in the summer of ’98, a lot of red dresses, then I was depressed. Pauline Trigère famously said, “If you wake up and you feel blue, wear red,” and that summer, heartsick over a soured love affair, I followed her edict, to no avail.


There was a brief time, a year or so in the mid-’90s, when I wore pants quite a lot. I’m not sure why I suddenly felt the urge to wear them. It was an insecure time, but hell, more or less, they’ve all been insecure times. But I guess I was feeling vulnerable. The appeal of pants is their coverage — even if they are tight, they enclose the body. They can, of course, be sexy, but they are intrinsically masculine in terms of structure and orientation. When a woman wears pants — particularly a pantsuit — she is overtly copying the boys. And back then, I did just that: I wore Romeo Gigli pantsuits made out of pinstriped flannels and linens, with narrow pants and three-button jackets. I wore the cuffed trousers short and I bought a pair of sturdy cordovan wingtips at Brooks Brothers. As a concession to femininity, I wore a skintight, low-cut bodysuit under all this armor. When I opened my jacket, it was a study in contrast: cleavage and tweed.
When I think about it now, those clothes seem intolerably heavy, like layers of insulation. I remember being in Los Angeles reporting a story on Leslie Moonves, who was then the head of Warner Brothers Television. I recall wearing a dark brown pantsuit to interview him in his dark brown suit, and I felt weighted down by my clothes. I think I was trying to be serious, but I felt those pants were suffocating me. Within months, I changed my entire wardrobe. The next time I interviewed Moonves, it was a decade later. He was now the king of CBS and still wearing a suit (and so were all of his female lieutenants), but I had changed into a dress. I’m not sure the interviews went better, but I wasn’t so constricted.


“For years,” said Alber Elbaz, the designer of Lanvin, “I did not put any pants in my collections. I did not see the point: I am interested in women, and I think the best uniform for a woman, young or old, is a dress.” His thinking, which echoed the design sensibility of Olivier Theyskens when he was designing for Rochas as well as young designers like Derek Lam and the sisters who call their company Rodarte, was to concentrate on what made women feel unique. “I cannot improve on a pair of jeans,” Elbaz told me. “And I don’t want to. But for women, a dress is the easiest solution: you zip it up, add a pair of shoes, grab your bag, a sweater or a coat, and you are done. What could be easier?
What could be more modern?”

I could not agree more. Designers overuse the word “modern,” but as Elbaz pointed out, there is something truly modern about stripping down layers. Historically, the wearing of pants was meant to signify freedom and equality for women, but I think trousers have just turned women into a sort of male clone. Of course, the most important thing is the freedom to choose, whether you’re choosing attire or anything else, but when women wear pantsuits, they all too often look bland and asexual.

And that may be the point. I suppose there are jobs and lives that call for that kind of gender neutrality. Certainly, the skimpy, low-cut baby-doll dresses that paraded around the streets of Manhattan this summer, teamed with the ubiquitous (and horrible) flip-flops, are too casual a look for anything but bed. And dresses should not be sleepwear. They should do what a pantsuit can’t: immediately establish your femaleness. And I would much rather try to succeed at my game than attempt theirs. After all, how else will I win?


*i don't necessarily agree completely...but it's interesting to ponder...
:p...
 
"But for women, a dress is the easiest solution: you zip it up, add a pair of shoes, grab your bag, a sweater or a coat, and you are done. What could be easier?
What could be more modern?”

i agree with this statement 110% - when i put on a dress, i feel like the rest of the outfit comes together easily + quickly, whereas when i wear pants or a skirt, i can stand in front of the mirror FOREVER, trying on a million tops...
 
I don't mind pants per se, but I really hate jeans. You walk down the street and 80% of people would be wearing them. Sure they're practical and can be trendy but it still looks like an uniform. I do wish more women worke skirts & dresses or well-cut trousers, just adds a bit of variety to life.
 
I haven't been wearing anything denim on my legs very often. I stick to shorts, preferably Bermuda (whether or not anyone here thinks they are a fashion faux pas).

^ I agree with Yanka that too many people end up wearing them these days. And plus, they're not even flattering on most people. They'll hit right above your ankle socks or come up right below your boobs. It's terrible. I'd like to see more people caring about their apperances. It's not a beauty pageant but put a little effort into it, yes!
 
As a person who generally lives in skirts year round, lately, I'm headed back to pants. The last time I wore pants more than twice a week was nearly four years ago.

Over the last half year though, I've gone from two pairs of trousers to three times that many. I think I have reached a time where pants feel interesting to me again.

It may have something to do with the fact that I am sick of summer. I am ready to retire all those airy cotton and silk dresses/skirts and tank tops; I am being anti-summer by pulling on a pair of trousers!
 
This is an interesting topic, and to tell you the truth I've been pondering it for awhile now.

Shirts, shorts and pants make up well over 70% of my wardrobe, yet the only times I pull them out are for soccer and an occasional lunch. I would sleep in dresses if I could. Something about walking around in an airy, light piece of fabric appeals to me, whereas I cringe at the thought of wearing stuffy jeans.

This all boils down to convenience, really. I know for most women, the idea of shorts and a shirt is ideal when keeping track of their kids and completing errands. With all the stress of everyday life, keeping up with your appearance seems to have taken not second, but third, fourth and even fifth place in terms of importance.

I sometimes long for the 1940s and 50s, when women wore beautiful, full skirts and dresses to do simple tasks like cleaning the kitchen. What happened? Why have we gradually resorted to wearing sweatpants and shirts when cleaning? I'm not criticizing those who do, because I'm sure that's more convenient in the long run, but I'm just curious as to why people have changed so drastically in the course of 50 years.

I'm sorry, I probably got off topic several times here. I just figured this is the place to mention these thoughts.
 
Thanks, Soft. I thought that was an intriguing article when I read it.

This reminds me back in college when I wore mostly skirts. It felt more carefree.

My boyfriend at the time said that he preferred pants on me cause it showed off my "assets." :rolleyes:
Which surprised me at the time, but I guess it shouldn't. Lots of guys like jeans for that reason.

But perhaps it is more womanly to wear dresses and skirts and retain a little mystery.

I have long since gotten rid of that bf. :p
 
i actually find pants more liberating instead of showing legs and my femininity and have everyone stare at me like a piece of meat.
 
^that's interesting

i think i'd wear skirts and dresses too if i was a girl
it's nice cuz the breeze travels everywhere.. great for when the weather's hot :ninja: i don't see guys' clothes doing that (and i'm uncomfortable with tank tops)
 
i just find skirts so comfortable ...
(well- not pencil skirts so much...:p...)

pants pinch and bind etc....
esp JEANS...!
:doh:


as gius said...skirts flow around nicely...
plus - you get to have fun with hosiery and boots or shoes etc...
skirts/dresses just seem more versatile in a lot of ways...
dress up or dress down...etc...

pants just never seem really dressy...more like business or casual attire...

additionally..
it is MUCH harder to find a pair of pants that really fits well ...
you have to deal with the rise and the waist and the hips and the length...etc...
with a skirt the most you might have to do is hem it usually...
so much easier...

:p
 
wish i had the legs to wear skirts *sigh* so jeleous of you all for being able to have the choice
 
^ I'm 5'1", so I wouldn't say I necessarily have ideal legs for wearing skirts. ;) I just wear what feels comfortable and hope it looks decent.
 

I sometimes long for the 1940s and 50s, when women wore beautiful, full skirts and dresses to do simple tasks like cleaning the kitchen. What happened? Why have we gradually resorted to wearing sweatpants and shirts when cleaning? I'm not criticizing those who do, because I'm sure that's more convenient in the long run, but I'm just curious as to why people have changed so drastically in the course of 50 years.


Yes! Yes! I agree so much. I think there has been this gradual shift wherein people as a whole have chosen for whatever reason to stop putting effort into how they look. Not so much here among the members of tFS but I find that in general most people tend just not care so much about how they are dressed. Getting dressed up is sort of a rare thing that is associated with special events whereas in the past getting dressed up was something one did every day. It was the norm - people, women especially took a great deal of time to prepare themselves each morning. Now people just don't anymore and I can't help but feel like its a shame.

That said I don't mean to imply that it is a bad thing in and of itself. I just feel as though that extra sense of elegance is somehow missing lately. I look at the stunning 20s and 40s themed fashions that are so dominant now and can't help but long for a time period when people truly adorned themselves. Sometimes it just feels as though beauty is in such short supply lately.

Ok back on topic. Pants are convenient when done right - I feel as though they're such a wardrobe staple but they're so easy to do wrong. Pants can look sloppy or dowdy in an instant if they're the wrong cut or shape or material even. For every pair of Kate Hepburn meets Cate Blanchett gabardine trousers there are about 99 pairs of cheap lycra infused slacks that do absolutely nothing for anyone. Yet there still exists this myth that its somehow easier to go about your day in pants.

I personally like both equally. I have more pants in my wardrobe than skirts at the moment but I'm rather picky when it comes to skirts. ^_^
 
I totally agree, I LOATHE jeans, WTH is wrong with the whole perfect jean rage? I mean, c'mon, I seriously find a pair of $30 old navy jeans same as the $200 j-brand jeans. They are just too casual and looks almost the same on everyone on this planet.

Skirts and dresses are very comfortable to be honest, more than pants at least for me. Dresses flows around with you, but pants "grabs" on you.
 
you guys must not have very hairy legs, there is NO way I could keep up with the de-hairing maintenance required to wear skirts or dresses everyday :ninja:
 
Coming from a country where the wearing of skirts is institutionalised as part of a compulsory school uniform, I'm simply glad I have the choice, after having no option of what to wear for so many years of my life. Back then, bare legs in winter was not liberating, it was enforced cruelty.

But I've left school behind; I'm an adult, I'm a professional, and I wear the trousers now. And I certainly don't go out in "pants" - I know it's a cross-Atlantic linguistic quirk, but for me, pants are what's worn under your clothes...
 
Black tights are my new pants.




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I think women in pants ane jeans are great (very sexy)..why limit yourself to wearing dresses and skirts thats just stupid IMO.Sure dresses and skirts are a great base for your wardrobe but wearing them all the time is kind of stepford wive looking.
 
^^totally :lol:

"But for women, a dress is the easiest solution: you zip it up, add a pair of shoes, grab your bag, a sweater or a coat, and you are done. What could be easier?
What could be more modern?”
i couldnt agree more!
my wardrobe consist of 50% dresses, 30% outerwear, 10% bottoms and 10% tops

however, i cant agree with this lady there about pants being anti-liberating. i dont want to have prejudice agaisnt one certain article of clothing, it depends on the situation. i also dont agree with her on wearing pants isn't very "femaleness". that part about showing our "femaleness" is very creepy, makes me think of brainless flower vases.
 
I went through my "dresses & skirts only" phase already. I love my jeans and find them much more freeing than skirts for my lifestyle. Skirts may look more pulled together, but there is much more to think about actually. Fabric quality, how the fabric hugs your butt, waist fit, the right hemline, the proportions, print size to match your body type, taking care of your legs for viewing...

much more complicated than finding a good pair of jeans for everyday.
 

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