Hey PrincessBird,
I know I'm a little bit late on this but I had to give you some support.
I'm so sorry for what you've been through! That is really really frustrating, not to say irritating. And the thought - and fear - that you won't be able to buy a bag again is... horrible.
It's sad but I feel someone can understand me now. I "suffer" from the same thing. I live in Brazil and got seized 2 times, in a period of time of 1 month.
One of them I had spent over 800 dollars. The other they sent the bags somewhere to see if they were fake - and I never heard about them anymore.
Funny thing is that before I had no problem with my orders or whatsoever, just like you.
I can tell you that here in Brazil, even if I pay for DHL shipping (which is 80 dollars for one bag), I might not receive it or I might have to pay for an abusive tax, which is not worth it.
The only help I can give you for now (before you find someone to receive your bags, and maybe mine too

) I keep searching on ioffer for bags from US buyers. The bad thing is that I can't have the ones that I really want, or I will have them like months later, when someone doesn't want it anymore. I've bought 5 bags from 5 different girls, all from J or T&D. So far so good. Three of them I received without a problem. Two are at Customs

for more than 2 weeks...
Anyway, I wish you GOOD LUCK!!
Sorry for writing so much!
And to everyone else,
1 a big Hello from Brazil
2 a thank you for the support given to her, I felt a little bit loved as well
3 and sorry for only reading all your posts and never really posting anything, I feel like I'm always a little behind on the subject. Or all the bags I buy, someone had already reviewed it. Sorry

Ana