xooey - omg! you poor thing! i can only imagine how that made you feel! so so so sorry you had to experience that!

i am happy, though, that you didn't go bat**** crazy and immediately sell off all your gorgeous nbfs or let it prevent you from enjoying new ones! if it's any consolation to you, that woman has absolutely
no life. in fact, not only does she not have a life (and needs a hobby), she is boring, vapid, and indescribably shallow to have spent her
entire dining experience staring at and making a mental checklist/comparison of,
your bag. cue Kathy Griffin: ♪♫
D-List!!!! ♫♪ that's certifiable d-list behaviour. a-listers certainly don't stare at other people's belongings, and definitely not while they're eating
so this woman, you know she was waffling back and forth in her mind, hemming and hawing, trying to convince herself one way or another that she knew without a shadow of a doubt that what she was staring at was 'fake'. and because of this, you know that she must be
insufferably materialistic, has zero personality or conversation skills, is certainly not interesting on her own merits, and definitely has no charm or charisma...because if she had, she would have been so enthralled and into what she and her dinner partner were discussing and eating that everything and everyone around her would
simply fade into the background!
and you know what? i'd rather be
accused of carrying a fake bag than be
caught having no life anyday
i agree with you and
bbs about the shiny leather being the giveaway but there is certainly no blame or shame for that here girly

yes, bbags are known for looking like leather. really yummy leather. and sheen is definitely different from shine. shine is usually associate with plastic...vinyl...pvc, etc. i know i don't want my black rh city looking like a fresh-out-the-box hefty trash bag. i like my
leather bags to
look like leather. veins, distressing, chewy puffy pillowy goodness--yum!! if i wanted a smooth and shiny bag, i'd sport one of those plastic totes all the tweens wear
anyway, as a model/actress and writer, my workplace environments are greatly varied. i can assure you that the photographer, director, camera operator, grip, gaffer, assistant, hair and make up artists, other models/talent, etc would never be so unprofessional or uncouth as to stare at, talk about, or question the authenticity of your belongings. same goes for when i meet with my editor in her office. no copywriters, editors, managers, agents, assistants, etc are stopping what they're doing (i.e.
working) to scope out some bag's hardware placement. whether on set or in an office setting, it's a
place of business. people are busy working, doing their job, focused on what they're being paid to do and doing it like a professional. like most work environments, it's fast-paced, productive, and driven by deadlines. time is money and they certainly don't have any to waste on mindless crazy hardware thimble color talk
so really, truly, seriously girls...there is no need to worry about the gold hardware or the silver hardware. don't let
someone else's real or imagined fears of tone or shine dictate your life...or you'll go crazy too! remember, only YOU can prevent forest fires!

enjoy YOUR bag, gh or not!

