Luna said:
I avoid going into higher end stores like that just because of the way the sales associates are...
I always feel very intimidated by them... and they always act snotty. Hello... you don't own Barney's... why are you ACTING like you do? You are WORKING FOR THEM?
but I always appreciate a kind and polite sales associate... they are few and far between.
Me too. I always feel like I'm not worthy.
Ridiculous, seeing as my BF pointed out I earn a hell of a lot more than them and my purchases contribute towards their salaries, but I just feel hoplessly intimidated, patronised & looked down on, I start blushing, mutter something irrational and flee. I'm convinced that a lot of it is to do with the way I'm quite often dressed when I do have time to go shopping - straight after work, in jeans & a t-shirt and trainers.
I was brought up to be exceptionally polite to anyone, regardless of whom they are - whether they're 'assisting' me or I am 'assisting' them.
In London one quite often gets SAs who ignore you and carry on their personal conversation about what happened on the weekend, even if you've been patiently standing at the till for 5 minutes with 4 items in your hand, waiting to pay.
When they do finally deign to assist you, they don't actually look you in the eye or address you, apart from to snap the final total at you in an aggresive tone of voice, all the while talking to their friend. Your bill is thrust across the counter or, at times, dropped into your hand from a height. There is no excuse for this sort of behaviour. It's just plain bad manners. The worst of it all is that even though i've just been treated like this, I still always meekly say a polite "thank you very much" and tiptoe out of there.
I will however exempt any SAs in Selfridges from my whinge, as they all appear to be absolutely lovely.