One thing that annoys me about tattoos is people who just put whatever on...they get something off the wall for instance!....Do you really want to have someone elses tat?...
GO CUSTOM. ALWAYS.
People also who get the "trendy" tats....eastern characters without knowing the meaning or that its a correct translation (example- britney with her mysterious japanese character which really was more like weird/peculiar
). Japanese tats when they have no clue the tradition of the irezumi tattoo...some idiot was going about and didn't know his shoulder tatoo is patterned after a yakuza gang member symbol. Disrepectful to the Japanese gang and also the history of his other tattos (he had a Noh Drama actor and called him a samurai
) I don't blame that some are really pissed off about this. Don't get me wrong though...it's just as bad for a ignorant Japanese to sport their irezumi even though its of the culture. It's a right you have to earn not a privilage. To get a proper one you have to go to a master horishi in japan and do a lot of convincing to get them to tattoo you.
I'm not saying you have to go to those lengths if it has certain origins like the japanese characters....have some respect for the culture youre borrowing from and for your body to research a bit into what you're tatooing. Also get something meaningful to you.
Sorry...lately I've been over stressing about tattoos...someone annoyed me a few days ago with their ignorance...
Right now I'm looking into my tattoo....it'll be painful and I'm scared of needles, but its something that means a lot to me...I'm looking into finding the right tattoo artist...I've been looking for about a year. Then I'm sure I'll be very precise with how he sketches my concept before we do it permanently.
kimkhuu its really nice you want to be upfront about it to your mother. I think if its something you really want and it means a lot for you to do it... don't skimp out on it because of another person, even if its someone as highly as your mother. No disrespect to her, I'm just saying that its your body and if it brings you happiness, I'm all for it