You are painting a dismal picture for us, Baron
I do definitely think about Rule 2 ... saw this blouse I really liked in a catalog the other day, and it had 3, count them 3, buttons down the front ... I know without ever seeing it that no waaay is that going to work on me. And I've noticed that square necklines make my jawline look square whereas normally it doesn't so I don't wear those ... but ... there's a part of me that doesn't want limits imposed on me. So sometimes, I wear things that are not optimally flattering just because I want to, dammit

Now I do everything I can to make them work as well as possible, like trying to put some skin between the color black & my face. But after that ...
I guess what I'm getting at here is another part of the equation, which is attitude. I've had people tell me before, no way could I pull that off, but it looks great on you. That's ~90% attitude, I think ...
Exhibit A, Isabella Blow.
So perhaps there's another set ... Those who know all these things, but want to push the envelope a bit, break the rules ...
