I guess I dont hold that against her because I think sometimes, for some people, like with identity (and fashion is a part of that for most of us), you have to try on many different hats before you find one thats yours...and then even when you do.....that changes and you swap and switch...I know I go through so many phases fashion-wise.....depending on my mood, the weather, where I'm going....one day I'll want to paint my fingernails bright orange and throw beads and bracelets all over myself and do the flowy, boho, hippie thing....and the next day its all black and navy and structured...
I think she's just having fun and experimenting....and thats cool to me