I don't know if you've been here before under a different account but no 'you can say whatever you like'. If you violate the rules, it does affect your account and soon enough, you're out. The problem is not the rules, nor enforcing them, tfs has always had strict censorship, the problem is how you decide to manipulate or misinterpret these policies and the bias in determining what constitutes a violation, and which rules apply for some mildly provocative content you personally don't like, while relaxing on highly disruptive and offensive content. In this case, I would agree the way of moderating is VERY representative of current fashion, very bro: it's 'debatable' whether some misogynist, incel junk straight out of 4-chan content should face removal or not, the ultimate offense, worse than misogyny, is making men who are all over womenswear like a rash feel like bats*it beauty standards apply to them too, or worse, invalidate their admittedly not-so valid, bogus 'insider' input sourced from pedestrian observation ('I walked into a store..' 'I looked from a window'). It's quite bizarre if you think about it: let's talk on and on about women's clothes, gate-keep it from certain women at all times, and sometimes even insult them just for being women (because ew), but also, do not dare to ever ridicule or shame me for any of this because how offensive and dumb.
I may have asked what's the best non-public place to wear sandals as a man with chunky toes, not exactly Maximilian-related but it is technically about his product, way more on topic than some nerd a*s story on how Ferragamo bought Ungaro in 1996. So the question remains, what's the violation? trolling? disruption? sexism? off-topic talk? some transparency should be brought back, moderators used to not be allowed to ever disable removal notifications so members could always see and learn from the reason chosen for deletion. Unless you can't justify the reason and just found it out-of-line as a man and wanted to do it (and did it) quietly. In that case, don't ask why I'm here and not in the Member Support & Feedback area, transparency goes both ways.