allybobally
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i'd really like a nosejob too. i've been thinking about it since i was 10, i just find my nose to be very long and out of place on my little round face. other people say it's cute but if i do get rhinoplasty, i'm not doing it for THEM. i'm doing it for me.
i don't think plastic surgery is so bad in moderation, but it definitely won't solve severe emotional problems (a la the swan? those women seemed to all have negligent husbands). my thing is that yeah, a lot of times, the surgery isn't noticeable to other people, but if it makes all the difference to you, you will feel more confident about yourself. i don't think most people stare at my nose and think, "wow, what a shame!" when they talk to me, but every time i look in a mirror i think "ugh, my nose! i hate it." and it definitely affects how confident i feel about my appearance.
Also, people talk about the homogenization of appearances. I think that is definitely true to an extent. But I do think that sometimes, things just look out of balance and it's not an attempt to look more like what our culture tells us is beautiful. Some of the most gorgeous women I can think of have very strange, bumpy noses and I think it only adds to their appearance. I think I'm biased and trying to rationalize it, but I feel like there's a difference between wanting to look like Barbie and wanting to look more in-sync with the rest of your features.
And I don't think anyone ever NEEDS elective surgery (thus the term elective). That's why I think people had such a big issue with the Swan, the doctors actually told the women what they were going to do to them. An ethical plastic surgeon wouldn't try to convince a patient to get any type of surgery, but listen to what the PATIENT wants and go with that.
Anyway...just a rehash of things already said.
i don't think plastic surgery is so bad in moderation, but it definitely won't solve severe emotional problems (a la the swan? those women seemed to all have negligent husbands). my thing is that yeah, a lot of times, the surgery isn't noticeable to other people, but if it makes all the difference to you, you will feel more confident about yourself. i don't think most people stare at my nose and think, "wow, what a shame!" when they talk to me, but every time i look in a mirror i think "ugh, my nose! i hate it." and it definitely affects how confident i feel about my appearance.
Also, people talk about the homogenization of appearances. I think that is definitely true to an extent. But I do think that sometimes, things just look out of balance and it's not an attempt to look more like what our culture tells us is beautiful. Some of the most gorgeous women I can think of have very strange, bumpy noses and I think it only adds to their appearance. I think I'm biased and trying to rationalize it, but I feel like there's a difference between wanting to look like Barbie and wanting to look more in-sync with the rest of your features.
And I don't think anyone ever NEEDS elective surgery (thus the term elective). That's why I think people had such a big issue with the Swan, the doctors actually told the women what they were going to do to them. An ethical plastic surgeon wouldn't try to convince a patient to get any type of surgery, but listen to what the PATIENT wants and go with that.
Anyway...just a rehash of things already said.