I just found a new trick-- I'm an "apple," so I bloat up in my middle section and boobs and never have to worry about my hips and thighs. When I'm fat, I HATE having anything around my waist. So, the other day at target (!!) I bought a black jersey cotton slip that hits a bit above my knees. I wear it with shirts layer over the top, and it winds up looking like a basic black skirt, but without the waistband! It's very flattering for me. yay!