adorefaith
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i think thats what she meant ferdinanda..
^ Yes it is, The Times is a major newspaper here so it would be fine to use.
AMEN!!!...
thank god someone said it..
HOORAY..
this is NOT about "accepting life"...or "learning to be tough"..
this is about coming to a place in your life where you realise you are WORTHY of being treated with the respect that you DESERVE..
L0VE...you say if people are shocked by this they must be young or lacking experience..
and it's funny you say that...because i think those are EXACTLY the people who take this kind of crap as "necessary" and "part of life"..
it simply IS NOT...
i dont know where you work or how you live...but in my life and my work, i don't take that kind of abuse and ridiculous hierarchy as NORMAL...and i don't surround myself with people who believe it is OK to treat others that way...
i dont live in a bubble...and of course i meet people who i dont particularly get along with....but i dont speak to others with disrespect and they dont speak to me that way either...
there is a BIG difference between learning to work hard and be surrounded by people who you dont particularly get along with and being instructed not to look someone in the eye or being taken advantage of...
i think with age and experience you learn that kind of discernment...
tell me about it..NY is a bloody jungle/shark tank! whether it be i-banking or publishing, etc. people can be brutal! luckily, I'd say college (or most colleges) prepares you well because while at uni, one meets all sorts of people, and you learn to deal with those disagreeable types. When I first came to uni, I was shocked at how conniving, backstabbing, and willing to step all over you people were just in order to get ahead, and was told various times (even by profs) that that was how it was in NY, and to get used to it. Unfortunately such experiences have prompted me to automatically assume the worst about a person's intentions until I have been proven otherwise.... how rough and tough it is amongst high achievers, go-getters, highly ambitious, shark infested in the chaotic, IRON JUNGLE of NYC.
agreeI think most people realise that's how it 'is'. A lot of people just don't think that's how it should be.