Originally posted by purplelucrezia@Dec 2 2004, 03:18 PM
They're only conforming to a less publicized label.
Maybe. But I am not convinced that they are worried about judgement the way that the other conformists we are talking about are.
Originally posted by purplelucrezia@Dec 2 2004, 03:18 PM
They're only conforming to a less publicized label.
Well said, liking it yourself is the most important thing.Originally posted by Spacemiu@Dec 2 2004, 02:40 PM
I think all people try to express themselves in a certin way, through the way they dress, the music they listen to, etc. To a certin exptent there is 'buying into' a idea no matter what. But if the idea is some thing that you personally like, I don't think that makes you a conformist.
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Originally posted by seraphelle@Dec 2 2004, 01:16 PM
So even among the nonconformists, there is conformity...? I like to think that if there were two identical skirts, except one missing the label, I would bid the exact same, but maybe it would be hard to keep that mindset...? As much as anybody believes in nonconformity...?
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This seriously is an EXACT description of me and my feelings toward Abercrombie and everything being discussed in this thread. I wonder if we were separated at birth...Originally posted by Fade to Black@Dec 2 2004, 01:27 PM
I'm not a fan of those suburban mall brands at all...my school is basically one big Abercrombie & Fitch catalog and to be honest I find it quite repulsive. I'm not a fashion expert by any means, as I'm still learning a lot of things about clothes and defining my own style...but I had to make an observation: I don't mean to generalize, but is it pure coincidence when I talk to some of these people who swear by the cookie cutter college style that their personalities seem completely vapid and empty and that everything about them screams conformist? To be very honest with you I'll admit I do have a snob mentality towards these people, but this mentality is in response to their own smug ignorance and being content to fit in without any sense of individuality...and anything else outside that mold they fit in is just alien to them, namely good taste. Or maybe I'm just delusional. I've kind of tried as hard as possible to stay away from fitting under that category because I see those people and I see something that I genuinely despise, not just the clothes but the whole lifestyle in general. Which is why I actually prefer to be alone, doing my own thing rather than fit in with a crowd that I don't feel comfortable with anyway.
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Originally posted by seraphelle@Dec 2 2004, 02:16 PM
I notice something funny about that on ebay. There were two Alaia skirts that were so similar, and one with the label missing and one with the label still in it. As far as I could see the one with the label missing was probably more expensive in the first place because it had a higher silk content and the other one had a higher wool content. But of course the one with the label in it sold for much more even though they were both obviously Alaia. For me the striking thing is that Alaia is not for the mainstream; maybe it is more so than Undercover but the masses don't really know the difference between Alaia and Abercrombie, or at least they don't notice it enough to be worth hundred of dollars of difference to impress others. So having the label inside truly is something that only the buyer only will know, but the buyer still cares.
So even among the nonconformists, there is conformity...? I like to think that if there were two identical skirts, except one missing the label, I would bid the exact same, but maybe it would be hard to keep that mindset...? As much as anybody believes in nonconformity...?
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Originally posted by softgrey@Dec 1 2004, 03:28 PM
i couldn't agree more...and i wear my most agressive clothes on days that i feel strong...so i can take all the looks and stares, and possible comments...
but i also find that if i am in a situation that poses some threat to me emotionally, my clothing can act as a suit of armour ...shielding me from possible confrontations with people who don't share my values or point of view...
i think this is a lot of what the 'goth' movement in teenagers is all about, right?...keeping people away who might potentially hurt you...
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Originally posted by Sarcastitch@Dec 9 2004, 02:37 AM
These teens for the most part are not interested in defining their personal style, they just want to get laid, be at the next party, have the latest gossip, get into the right college, get their parents off their ***, and a bunch of other shtuff. They basically don’t care. The boys will wear the baggy ripped jeans because if they’re too slim or stylish they will look like a “******”. The girls will wear those tattered rags as a top because the boys think it sexy. They (boys and girls) don’t care or understand the sophistication about a proper silhouette.
Originally posted by softgrey@Dec 2 2004, 11:35 PM
fyi...just a bit of info here...even though silk is considered a fine fabric..it is actually one of the cheapest fabrics to produce...so the silk skirt does not have more intrinsic value than the wool one...
and anything with a label has more value on the open market...just like a signed painting is more valuable than one that is unsigned... so the skirt with the label is a better investment and worth more because of its re-sale value... just a matter of practicality and common sense...nothing to do with conformity...
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Originally posted by sohoxchic@Dec 9 2004, 05:37 PM
i used to wear a&f last year, but now i would never wear it. i've become my own person, and i have my own style. If you look around my school, all you'll see is a&f...the same clothes over and over again. Its just a bunch of insecure teens who want to "fit in". Because i have my own style, and wear things that no one else has..i'm considered "weird". The sad thing is, they think they have style. To me, that is the opposite of style. I just can't stand seeing the same nasty clothes on everyone
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Originally posted by Fade to Black@Dec 9 2004, 06:19 PM
Well said, sohoxchic...today I walked into my econ discussion wearing slim cut jeans and some A&F frat types were lookin at me funny. It's kinda weird because at my age, people who fall into the trends are considered stylish and people who dress different from the norm such as myself are outsiders or "different". I like to think of myself as a rogue maverick
BTW, is that Adriana Lima in your avatar or is that you? I'd like to think that's you,
I have a habit of asking people if they're the person in their avatar because when I'm reading their posts I picture that face in the avatar typing and talking. I've been wondering that about Lena too.
But back on track...
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