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pavement said:Most people I heard from complaining about it were upset that they were hosting parties to watch the game, and there were so many kids in the room watching it. Parents just didn't expect for that to happen on a football game. Frankly I wouldn't want my kids to see that either. While I know sex is everywhere, I'd do anything to give them a more ideal view of sexuality than two pop singers getting together to objectify a woman's body onstage.
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high maintenance said:Sorry I was busy today so I wasn't able to be on here, first of all you don't know **** about me to say that Iam narrow minded or that I have a chip on my shoulder, second where in the hell did I say you were trying to make people type something offensive to black people? You must can't read because what I said was being as though the word "cracker" (please excuse me everyone) has been used thru out this thread and I was talking about what some black people who are very ignorant call caucasin people, I figured you were being funny, but if you were not and I took it wrong, than let me know I was wrong and what you were meaning to say before you even begin to tell me what mind Iam in, sometimes, since your so smart, when people type, its hard to know exactly how they are saying things because its being typed, so if I took something you said wrong then explain it to me
SiennaInLondon said:A) You do realise that in a forum, using ***** is as offensive as writing whatever word? In fact it is worse because you are going under the pretence of not being offensive whilst being totally offensive
I was explaining it to you. I could say the same to you. Instead of assuming that 'I was being funny' about racism, why didn't you say, 'do you really not know what that word is?'
C) I wasn't pretending to know you. I was saying that HAD you been saying what I thought you were saying (Which you haven't denied) you were narrow minded in terms of what you had written. No assumptions here.
D) I am not angry or pissed off but I just don't like it (understandably) when people say I am purposely trying to misunderstand the usage of a racist term. Of course it is hard to interpret toneless passages (and smilies aren't appropriate in some threads) but then perhaps not say 'I think you perfectly well know what I was saying'. (Can you see how that phrase would come across?)
electricladyland said:seinfeld is on...is anyone watching? Will you still watch it?
twisted_utopia said:Yes, I will. The quality of the show has nothing to do with the personal remarks of its actors. It´s an independent thing.
electricladyland said:Great that you can separate those two things out. Seeing Michael Richards and thinking of his comments (which referenced lynching African Americans who interrupt a white man) turns my stomach.
electricladyland said:Great that you can separate those two things out. Seeing Michael Richards and thinking of his comments (which referenced lynching African Americans who interrupt a white man) turns my stomach.
electricladyland said:Actually it was a bit ironic. I actually cannot separate those two things out. I can't watch Kramer and not think of the filth the actor who plays him spewed from his mouth. I won't watch the show. I can't turn a blind eye to hatred just because the guy makes me laugh in another context. It's like trying to enjoy a good meal that you know someone sullied with something disgusting.
I agree. I'm not judging the show, just the actor. It will just be difficult for me as an African American who has seen what the worst of racism can do to people (both the victims and the perpetrators) to watch the show. I appreciate you stating that you can't really know what it feels like. That goes a long way with me.SiennaInLondon said:In that case (you not being ironic) - fair enough. His comments aren't aimed at me so whilst angry, I can't really know what it feels like personally. I can understand why you couldn't watch the show even though I still think shows need to be judged on their own merit.
brokenenglish said:I think he seems to be in need of treatment for anger in general...
and it seemed as though he hinted of that in his "apology".