one can have long limbs at any height though. Why do people automatically equate height with all-over length? many tall people have short necks and small hands and fingers.
in terms of gender recognizition, height doesn't make a woman more feminine, it makes her more manly.
i don't see why many women think height would attract men.
However i have met men who are attracted to tall women soley because they are tall, not because of anything else, and that makes it a fetish. I don't think women in general want to be treated like a fetish piece. i've also noticed men who are attracted to model-like proportions (height, boyish body) have gay-tendencies themselves.
i've never met an average guy who doesn't have noticable gay or questionable characteristics that is into tall women. They rather like petite/average/small-featured women.