The rules of flats

[goeth314]

Don't you want to find a balance between what pleases you (from what I read flats) and what others like on you (high heels)?

 

[Kalista]

Don't you want to find a balance between what pleases you (from what I read flats) and what others like on you (high heels)?

What about if you don't actually care what others like on you? They are your feet after all......

 

[goeth314]

What about if you don't actually care what others like on you? They are your feet after all......

They're not just feet.
Fashion is also about pleasing the people who are seeing you, in some way at least.

When I like a girl, she gets a little bonus in my scale if she wears heels.

 

[Curious]

^ I think that's ridiculous. If your judging a girl by her footwear, then that's just superficial...

 

[Kalista]

When I like a girl, she gets a little bonus in my scale if she wears heels.

I agree with Curious. It's really superficial to judge somebody because of what they're wearing.

 

[goeth314]

^ I think that's ridiculous. If your judging a girl by her footwear, then that's just superficial...

I don't JUDGE a girl by her footwear, it's not that bad.
In fact, I don't judge people at all.

However on a first impression, it does attract me a lot.
And believe me, I'm not the only one. A lot of males actively like girls who wear high heels.

 

[Kalista]

However on a first impression, it does attract me a lot.
And believe me, I'm not the only one. A lot of males actively like girls who wear high heels.

That may be true, but I really couldn't care less if it was. If a man isn't attracted to me because I'm wearing flats I'm not going to lose sleep over it. I'm not going to compromise my style just to suit other people's tastes.

 

[goeth314]

Point taken. Girls have asked me to wear jeans, and it's something I simply don't do, so why would you have to wear heels?

I certainly didn’t want to upset all of you with my remark.

 

[anacori]

Goeth - how tall are you? Do you still find a woman attractive if she towers over you in heels? I'm just curious because I'm tall and it seems to me that while I do indeed look sexy in heels, men feel uncomfortable standing next to a woman who is taller than they are.

 

[goeth314]

5'9.
I don't feel the least bit uncomfortable with a girl who is taller than me.
Probably some men are, but again some men are also uncomfortable around beautiful girls.

 

[*Happiness*]

Great article. I love flats...especially since I'm 5'10!

Nice height. I'm 5'7" and wish to be a smidge taller.

 

[Curious]

Point taken. Girls have asked me to wear jeans, and it's something I simply don't do, so why would you have to wear heels?

I certainly didn’t want to upset all of you with my remark.

Thanks for that Goeth! No hard feelings, of course.

I'm glad to hear that neither you or Kalista would compromise what you feel is true to you for others

BTW - while I love flats, I also love high heels and every height in between. I'm an equal opportunity shoe wearer

 

[Kalista]

Point taken. Girls have asked me to wear jeans, and it's something I simply don't do, so why would you have to wear heels?

I certainly didn’t want to upset all of you with my remark.

Oh no I wasn't upset at all. I was just pointing out that no-one should compromise their style for other people's best interests. Glad to hear you agree

 

[goeth314]

By bad.
Apologies on the way.

 

[Kalista]

By bad.
Apologies on the way.

No need

 

[Curious]

^ 2nd! I should probably add that I wasn't upset either, just stating my opinion

Don't you love a happy ending?

 

[i_<3_chanel]

if men prefer a woman in heels
then i'm never going to find a man !

 

[Elegance.Is.Refusal.]

^^^ i found one and its all good! he actually told me today that his favourite pair of shoes on me are my canvas flats!

and your very pretty im sure you'l find a guy!

 

[i_<3_chanel]

^^^ i found one and its all good! he actually told me today that his favourite pair of shoes on me are my canvas flats!

and your very pretty im sure you'l find a guy!

thts' so cute !
& would you like to tell tht to all the boys tht i know ! PLZ.

 

[Elegance.Is.Refusal.]

i shall where are they! they should be falling over themselves to be with you

and flats rock