mkfan said:
Thanks so much for your repsonse. It's really helpful. I'm actually very shy so "networking" in the traditional sense is not exactly what I'm after. I'm more interested in how this will look on my resume because I know certain magazines require prior magazine experience but others they are more interested in your previous "fashion" experience. Ugh, it's just so frustrating because I don't want to give up this offer only to discover than none of the magazine internships work out...sorry, I'm just very conflicted right now and not very articulate!
The reason we keep harping on the "networking" thing is because most desired jobs in the magazine and the fashion world are found through people who know you and know your abilities, etc. More often than not, a resume does not get you the job. Yeah, it might get you in at ground level but then you have to take it from there if you have loftier goals.
So you must start looking at this networking thing differently ... you will need to stand out among all the thousands of others competing for the same jobs and assignments throughout your entire career. It really is an essential skill to make it in this biz so you
must make learning that skill a priority.
What you hope to acheive with networking is:
1. People will tell you about upcoming opportunities, so you can get your name in for consideration before it's widely known ... and maybe you'll be ahead of the competition. (And ... you can't be shy about letting your superiors know that you are interested in advancing to certain jobs ... they won't know if you don't tell them.)
2. You will need references from many respected people in your field, so they must remember you and your work and want to give a glowing reference.
3. If you are well known and liked by numerous people who are connected they will often give your name as someone to consider for plumb jobs and assignments. We often wonder how someone got a job or assignment, when we didn't even know it was up for grabs. Well, they got selected because their "reputation preceeded them" and they were asked before the opportunity was made public.
4. You will need favors from your friends in the biz ... maybe an introduction to someone else who can help you in your career or just how to find information or something that you need to complete an assignment.
If you are not an effective networker, you will have a strong disadvantage in these related businesses ... publishing, fashion, PR. It will hamper your rise to higher positions. So, do what you can to develop this skill ... shy or not ... you can overcome it with lots of practice.
One advantage of interning with the stylist would be watching her network constantly,
if she's good at it. Maybe she'd at least share some of those tips with you. But you wouldn't be able to
practice networking ... so that's a definite negative, in my opinion.
Of the two choices, I think the magazine would be best ... where you can actually practice networking and watch others do it to learn how they approach it. And you'd start to make contacts faster than with the stylist ... because you'd work with the same people day in and day out. It would be easier for a shy person to make friends.
Food for thought?
