Going by the rest of her post and its overall tone, I think she was saying pretty much the same thing. And she posed it as a rhetorical question, which meant it wasn't a genuine question at all but a more roundabout statement of her opinion. I don't think I was being unfair in my reply, not to mention that my tone was sufficiently calibrated (although strong).
But I really don't want to argue semantics.
Well, I don't think it's arguing semantics, personally.
Maybe this is another male vs female perspective? But, to me, it wasn't a rhetorical question, it was a genuine one.
Obviously, gimmethatbag tends to believe, herself, that fashion is supposed to have an element of fantasy, otherwise she wouldn't have asked that question, but I also think she expected you to just answer; 'Well, no, I don't think that it is necessarily supposed to, actually, because yada, yada, yada...', rather than reacting in the way you did.
I may be projecting somewhat, but from what she says, I think she comes across as a bit irritated, in the rest of her post, not because she is completely married to the idea in her question; but, rather, because she seems a little bit tired of being told what she should and shouldn't think and wear by men who, quite frankly, may very well not 'get' her and her lifestyle and needs, at all.
I could be wrong, though, of course!
I can't help but think that, if the sexes can't even understand each other properly in posts, why do they then think that they have a hope of telling each other what they ought to want to wear?
It's not as though most of us women pile into the menswear threads and start telling all the men how much better their lives would be if they wore a certain type of clothing, is it?
Or start trying to undermine the perspectives of men who say that they don't really like the propositions there.
So, if we are talking about sexism in fashion, there's another possible example, right there, isn't there?
No real point in being 'free' in terms of what we wear, if that so-called freedom has been, more-or-less, imposed on us by faceless men on the internet...