crechebaby said:
I have to express the slight irritation I feel at the constant French-worship often found in US magazines--Vogue, Allure, and Elle seem to be the worst offenders. While I really like and admire much of their culture and customs, the part that bothers me is the inevitable comparison of refined, elegant frenchwomen to boorish, uncivilized american women. Does there need to be this one-upmanship?
Thank you! I'm so sick of the implication that I'm a vulgar, obnoxious, uneducated, tacky, gauche wh*re just because I was born in the US (and in the most decadent city of them all!). I'm none of those things, thank you very much! I happen to have friends from all over the world, who like me for who I am, not some silly stereotype perpetuated by the media. THe celebrities you see on TV and in movies are not very good examples of real American women.
The idea that makeup is what causes pimples, I have found, is absolute rubbish in my case. I decided to go without makeup for a month or so to see what would happen. And well, nothing happened. Just as before, a week before my period, the pimples flared up again. When you have hormonal acne, simply cleansing and not wearing makeup has no effect because it's a deeper issue.
I wear makeup everyday (foundation, powder, blush, eyeliner/shadow, and mascara). Yet, no one actually thinks that I do. It's because I take care to apply it properly. My foundation is always blended and I make sure everything matches my skin tone (I'm very fair with freckles). That way I acheive the "no makeup" look, but I still look decent. Trust me, if you saw me without makeup, you wouldn't be saying how "beautiful" I look!
I've loved makeup since I was a child (I got it from my mother, who apparently looked like a "cheap wh*re" when my grandmother first met her
). I love doing my makeup, as well as my friends. I don't care if that's not "classy" or "natural", but I love it. It's a way for me to express myself since I happen to be horrible at about every other art form. I love getting compliments when I step outside my comfort zone, and it really does help when I'm feeling hideous during a particularly bad breakout.