Paper Magazine Editor is Powerful, but no Power Snob
Does anyone remember that, long before Madonna was a zillionairess with a  fake British accent, she used to dance at the Roxy with a posse of  Latino b-boys? Kim Hastreiter does. Are there many who recall when  Jean-Michel Basquiat’s paintings, created in a basement on manic cocaine  binges, were being sold for $200 on the street at what his dealer  termed a fire sale? Well, there is Ms. Hastreiter. Are there two people  alive who celebrated the bicentennial by driving cross-country from  California in a Dodge truck called the Dragon Wagon to storm New York  City with Joey Arias riding shotgun? There is just one.        
  The coolest person in New York may well be a large 58-year-old woman who  wears cherry-colored glasses and a linen smock, and is planning a hip  replacement. That is hip, as in orthopedics, not as in “tragically.”        
  If Kim Hastreiter is most familiar as one of the two editors of Paper  (the other is David Hershkovitz), the downtown magazine  in its 26th  year, she is less publicly visible as one of the genuine connectors in a  city where power is often measured in terms of social circuitry.        
  To say that Kim Hastreiter knows practically everyone who matters in the  cultural life of this city is an understatement and, anyway, does her  no favors. A lot of people here know practically everyone, or anyway  claim they do. What separates Kim Hastreiter from the run of ordinary  power people is that no imaginary velvet rope cordons off her cohort of  acquaintances and friends. Like a lot of this town’s celebrity brokers  and society hostesses and fame wranglers, she keeps a mental list of  interesting types. Unlike the average power snob, though, she shares her  list freely and it is never closed.        
  “Kim isn’t just about big guys or big guys versus little guys,” Sally  Singer, the fashion features director of Vogue, said of Ms. Hastreiter.  “You could be Madonna or Beth Ditto or the next big thing in art or  design,” Ms. Singer said. “But you could just as easily be some  adorable, highly androgynous club creature that’s going to be a fun  person to have at a party for a year before you go home to Duluth.”        
  Ms. Hastreiter is excited by any of the above. She is excited, period.  “She’ll call and say, ‘I found this thing, this person, this girl who  does letters,’ ” Ms. Singer said, specifically referring to the artist  Tauba Auerbach, now an art world fixture (she is featured in the current  
Whitney Biennial) but a San Francisco unknown when  Ms. Hastreiter first cottoned to her stylized experiments in typography.         
  “She’ll call you,” Ms. Singer said, “and say, “You have to see this  artist, her work is sick!’ ”        
  Sick is a carryall word in Ms. Hastreiter’s vocabulary; it packs in  everything good. It is “sick” when she spots an artist whose work  excites her, and “sick” when the cabaret wonder Joey Arias shows up in a  slick pompadour and “sick” when Madonna descends on a dinner party Ms.  Hastreiter is holding at Casa Lever for 
Pedro  Almodóvar, a friend of many years and, oh, by the way, 
Penélope  Cruz.        
  Sick becomes an outright heart attack when something truly thrills Ms.  Hastreiter. Even better than cardiac arrest, linguistically, is death.  It practically killed Ms. Hastreiter last month when she learned of her  selection by the 
Council of Fashion Designers of America as the  recipient of its prestigious Eugenia Sheppard Award.        
  “I died,” she said. “I’m like an artist, like an outsider person,” and  not one of the fashion cognoscenti, she explained recently, sitting in  her modest office at Paper, anomalously located in a section of Midtown  that could be called Garment District Adjacent.        
  “Put me in a room with 30 billionaires and one artist and I’ll find the  artist,” Ms. Hastreiter explained. “I have zero ability to smell money.  But I’m a heat-seeking missile,” for talent. And the talents that kill  her are so wildly assorted that a Paper party can sometimes seem like a  social mix-tape run amok.        
  Doubtless she would protest the comparison, but in a sense Ms.  Hastreiter is the successor, however unlikely, to society hostesses like  Pat Buckley who once gathered at their tables a regular segment of the  city’ s social gratin. Elites take on different contours in Ms.  Hastreiter’s hands, though, and rather than 
Henry  Kissinger at her dinner table you are more likely to find the  apparition called Ladyfag, a woman who dresses like a man dressed in  drag.        
  It is true that at Ms. Hastreiter’s table at Indochine one may bump into  the occasional It girl or social X-ray. But it is far more likely that  one will encounter her latest intern or artistic discovery, or Shaun  White, the snowboard god (who just turned up at the Paper offices in  late February, fresh from his gold-medal-winning performance at the  winter Olympics) or the artist Ruben Toledo attempting to chat with 
John Waters  across the platinum-blonde palisade of Lady Bunny’s wig.        
  There are so many parties and so many stories. Thelma Golden, the  director of the 
Studio  Museum in Harlem, was introduced to her future husband, the  Nigerian designer Duro Olowu, at one of Ms. Hastreiter’s wingdings. 
Liza  Minnelli appeared as the surprise guest performer at another Paper  party, on an anything-goes bill that also included the Virgins. Ms.  Hastreiter once took over the Ukrainian Embassy and invited uptown  socialites like Ann Slater to meet the social arbiters of life below  14th Street, who happen, in most cases, to be men whose preferred  undergarments are corsets or Spanx. “She’s got this gift for making that  which is indie seem commercial and that which is commercial seem  indie,” Ms. Singer said.        
  Kim Hastreiter, said Steven Kolb, the executive director of the Council  of Fashion Designers, is one of “these unsung personalities in our  industry who isn’t often associated with accolades. She just trudges  through it all and has done amazing things for the industry and for  young designers and not in a public way.” Among the designers whose  cause she has championed over the past several decades are Isabel  Toledo, Heatherette, the collective AsFour (now known as threeASFOUR),  Mr. Olowu and also 
Geoffrey  Beene, the legendary and legendarily prickly designer whose one-time  fan letter to Ms. Hastreiter resulted in a friendship that went on to  span decades.        
  Ms. Hastreiter draws few lines between cultural disciplines, perhaps  because she began her career as a painter and only accidentally strayed  into fashion and then publishing. Art and design and fashion occur  everywhere, in her view, not just in academia and the Bryant Park tents.  It was, after all, at places like Club 57, the Pyramid and the Mudd  Club that an entire generation of Ms. Hastreiter’s contemporaries —  artists, designers and performers — came into its own.        
  “Kim comes from the counterculture, and the counterculture is an  important part of the fashion culture, a fact we don’t recognize  enough,” said Stan Herman, the designer and former president of the  Council of Fashion Designers. Mr. Herman added that, “unfortunately,  this is not the countercultural time.”        
  But hold on. A 2007 profile of Ms. Hastreiter in 
The New  Yorker asserted that the continued success of Paper, which has a  circulation of about 100,000, is built on a fantasy it projects of a  scrappy New York bohemia and an idea of downtown that gentrification has  all but routed.        
  Is downtown really dead? Sure, the Mudd Club is long gone and many of  the brilliant names of the era died untimely deaths or went on to become  names in the high school art curriculum. Yet if you ask Ms. Hastreiter —  a woman so unconcerned with seeming cool or ironic that she actually  talks about taking life’s lemons and making lemonade — whether all that  is great and thrilling about New York City actually came to an end, as  some fogies insist, around 1985, she snorts.  “I hate when people say  everything was so much better back then,” she  said. “I live for the  combustion that occurs when you bring together unlikely combinations of  people and that’s the same as it ever was.”        
  She cites the example of a recent Los Angeles pop-up gallery sponsored  by Paper where the “Rodarte girls were next to the people from the  Mollusk Surf Shop in Venice; who were next to Mr. Cartoon, this genius  Mexican tattoo artist; who was next to a drag queen; and, God help me,  everybody was excited to work with people that, in a ghettoized place  like Los Angeles, they would never meet in a million years.”        
  This very week, Ms. Hastreiter noted, “this genius art collective called  the 
Family  “is opening a monthlong pop-up gallery at 70 Franklin Street in  TriBeCa, where they plan to do something pretty close to what Ms.  Hastreiter does in Los Angeles. “They’re going to curate everything from  readings to music to art to live stuff,” Ms. Hastreiter said. “What I  love most about it is that it’s not just 20-year-olds, it’s not about  age, it’s not about limitations, it’s about community.” Community and  creativity, “always trump shallowness and hype in the end,” Ms.   Hastreiter added. “I die for that.”