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Madonna to Adopt a baby

taperjeangirl said:
I read she promised to let him visit in about 3/4 years.
Why can't we do this in reverse and have Malawi raise Madonna, and the rest of the world will check back with her in another 3 or 4 years?

Celebrity Humanitarianism: Here's a tip on how to do it right:

http://www.ahepburn.com/work1.html
 
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brokenenglish said:
Does anyone know if she is making another documentary....
about her trip to Africa to adopt?
I ask b/c when I saw video of her there she seemed to also have her own film crew very close and filming her in the village.
sexydaydreamer said:
Besides, did Madonna even donate cash to Malawi? If she has, I haven't heard of this donation.
To answer both of your questions

Madonna is funding six orphanages and is in the process of setting up a new orphanage which will home 4,000 children. All proceeds of her new childrens book [The English Roses: Too Good To Be True ] will be donated too. The reason for the camera crew is part of a promo clip [or documentary] for the charity Raising Malawi. Her adoption of David was not filmed and was never intended to be filmed. Madonna and her husband picked david up in person [see picture bellow] but because of legal reasons he was not allowed to leave the country with them at that time so her childrens nanny flew with him instead.

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An open letter from Madonna:

My husband and I began the adoption process many months prior to our trip to Malawi. I did not wish to disclose my intentions to the world prior to the adoption happening as this is a private family matter. After learning that there were over one million orphans in Malawi, it was my wish to open up our home and help one child escape an extreme life of hardship, poverty and in many cases death, as well as expand our family.

Nevertheless, we have gone about the adoption procedure according to the law like anyone else who adopts a child. Reports to the contrary are totally inaccurate. The procedure includes an 18 month evaluation period after which time we hope to make this adoption permanent. This was not a decision or commitment that my family or I take lightly.

I am overwhelmed and inspired by my trip to Malawi and hope that it helps bring attention to how much more the world needs to do to help the children of Africa.

My heartfelt thanks for all the good wishes I have received and I hope the press will allow my family some room for us to experience the joy we feel to have David home.

Madonna Ritchie
October 17, 2006
London, England
 
The purpose of adopting children is that young kids can be loved and cherished and the purpose of it is completely lost...
 
We've all read this but why the mixed messages? Why is the boys father and family confused about the situation? Why was she allowed to do this so quickly (she said months prior...adoptions take more than months in Britain, I can't imagine what doing it in a foreign country must be like).

To be honest, the subject isn't even really about how anymore. It's about the whys and what ifs.
 
tifa said:
We've all read this but why the mixed messages? Why is the boys father and family confused about the situation? Why was she allowed to do this so quickly (she said months prior...adoptions take more than months in Britain, I can't imagine what doing it in a foreign country must be like).

To be honest, the subject isn't even really about how anymore. It's about the whys and what ifs.

I'm not religious, but actually, the biggest thing that bothers me about the entire deal is the report that the father was very adamant about his son being raised Christian, and that he was told Madonna was a "good Christian woman" who would do just that. With Madonna's high profile, zealous embrace of faux Kabbalah, and the reports of her cutting people out of her life that don't follow in her path, this obviously isn't going to happen. So "they", or she herself, purposefully lied to the father about something very important in order to obtain the child she had hand-picked. It's condecending, pretentious, and abhorrent.

As for the why was David in an orphanage if his father wanted him so badly - most of what I've read indicates that David was in the orphanage because his mother was dead, and his father could not work and care for him, and he was planning on remarrying and bringing David home as soon as he could, and he visited the boy every day.

Maybe Madonna's next child will come from a day care center - after all, if those birth parents really wanted their kid, they wouldn't have dumped them off there, and Madonna can provide such a better life :rolleyes:
 
I have only one thing to say about the whole ordeal... if the father of the baby that Madonna wants to adopt was a good father, he wouldn't keep his child away from the life he could lead living in England with two very wealthy people. I know I would want the best for my child, and not having them growing up with malaria, no food, and no clean water.
 
KhaoticKharma said:
I have only one thing to say about the whole ordeal... if the father of the baby that Madonna wants to adopt was a good father, he wouldn't keep his child away from the life he could lead living in England with two very wealthy people. I know I would want the best for my child, and not having them growing up with malaria, no food, and no clean water.

Erm being a good parent is not about money it is about being mentaly stable. The woman is 48 and prances about wearing a leotard and attaching herself to a crucifix in the name of "Entertainment" hardly the best start for any child.
 
taperjeangirl said:
Erm being a good parent is not about money it is about being mentaly stable. The woman is 48 and prances about wearing a leotard and attaching herself to a crucifix in the name of "Entertainment" hardly the best start for any child.

what does what she does/how she acts as a performer have to do with her parenting abilities?! The fact that she "prances about wearing a leotard" means she's mentally unstable? :huh::blink:
 
madonna is going to appear on oprah in her first interview regarding this adoption...
from ap...

Madonna will speak to talk show host Oprah Winfrey about her decision to adopt a 13-month-old Malawian boy — the first television interview for the pop star since her adoption became an international controversy.

The interview is scheduled to tape Tuesday and air Wednesday, a spokeswoman for Harpo Productions Inc. said Monday.

Madonna traveled to Malawi on Oct. 4 with her husband, Guy Ritchie. Together, they spent eight days visiting orphanages she is funding through her charity.

The boy, named David Banda, was taken to London last week after Malawi's High Court granted Madonna and her husband an interim adoption order.

The 48-year-old singer has said she acted according to the law, but the toddler's father said Sunday he did not realize he was signing away custody of the boy "for good."

Madonna, who rose to pop culture icon status in the 1980s, has two children — daughter Lourdes, 9, and son Rocco, 6.
 
Madonna and Oprah! All we need is Hillary for my personal Cerberus to be realized!

Oprah on Madonna:

"The Madonna who sits with me at my Harpo office says she is a woman transformed. She seems so different than when I interviewed her five years ago. Really." — Oprah
http://www.oprah.com/omagazine/200401/omag_200401_ocut.jhtml

We believe you Oprah. Really.
 
mundodabolsa said:
what does what she does/how she acts as a performer have to do with her parenting abilities?! The fact that she "prances about wearing a leotard" means she's mentally unstable? :huh::blink:


The fact that her and her husband can't even get their own identity right let alone that of a child.
 
KhaoticKharma said:
I have only one thing to say about the whole ordeal... if the father of the baby that Madonna wants to adopt was a good father, he wouldn't keep his child away from the life he could lead living in England with two very wealthy people. I know I would want the best for my child, and not having them growing up with malaria, no food, and no clean water.

They tried that with the Native Americans, you know. Sent soldiers into villages and tore the children from the arms of their screaming parents and gave them to wealthier white families, for the sake of the child - they could have a better education, health, food, etc, than they would with their families in their community. But, I guess, hey, it's all okay. Those Native Americans (and all the other groups this has been done to throughout world history, and it's been a lot) just weren't good parents. Otherwise they wouldn't have protested, and would have been fine with it.

Maybe we should make it mandatory for all people under a certain income level to have their children forcibly adopted, to give them a better life. Love counts for nothing, only $$$$$$ and material goods make any difference in a child's life. Or! Let's just sterilize all the poor people in the world, and then we can avoid the entire issue! Margaret Sanger was onto something good, believing that contraception and abortion should be encouraged for all those icky non white, non Protestant people in the world. Someone should really start pushing that cause again. After all, a life not lived in at least the middle class world must really suck and contain nothing at all of value:rolleyes:

I think adoption is a magnificent thing, when it's what the parents want, because they've decided what is best for their child. David's father has committed no crime, yet he's not a "good father" because he doesn't bow down to the wishes of outsiders, and give his child away? What makes him a less-than, not deserving of basic human rights and liberties? What makes other people so superior that they can decide who is deserving of having children? Who makes the rules on what is a meaningful life that the rest of us inferiors have to follow?
 
Anastasia said:
They tried that with the Native Americans, you know. Sent soldiers into villages and tore the children from the arms of their screaming parents and gave them to wealthier white families, for the sake of the child - they could have a better education, health, food, etc, than they would with their families in their community. But, I guess, hey, it's all okay. Those Native Americans (and all the other groups this has been done to throughout world history, and it's been a lot) just weren't good parents. Otherwise they wouldn't have protested, and would have been fine with it.

Maybe we should make it mandatory for all people under a certain income level to have their children forcibly adopted, to give them a better life. Love counts for nothing, only $$$$$$ and material goods make any difference in a child's life. Or! Let's just sterilize all the poor people in the world, and then we can avoid the entire issue! Margaret Sanger was onto something good, believing that contraception and abortion should be encouraged for all those icky non white, non Protestant people in the world. Someone should really start pushing that cause again. After all, a life not lived in at least the middle class world must really suck and contain nothing at all of value:rolleyes:

I think adoption is a magnificent thing, when it's what the parents want, because they've decided what is best for their child. David's father has committed no crime, yet he's not a "good father" because he doesn't bow down to the wishes of outsiders, and give his child away? What makes him a less-than, not deserving of basic human rights and liberties? What makes other people so superior that they can decide who is deserving of having children? Who makes the rules on what is a meaningful life that the rest of us inferiors have to follow?

I think you said it all. Karma :flower:
 
Well said, Anastasia :)
 
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brokenenglish said:
Oprah will get to the truth! The airbrushed, softly lit, publicist approved truth.;)

Hands up who thinks she will fake a little crying session (Madonna not Oprah)
 
taperjeangirl said:
Hands up who thinks she will fake a little crying session (Madonna not Oprah)

I'd pay to see both of 'em fake some tears :ninja:
 

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