I am going to (Moderate) Nay! the strap oxfords in Post #181. Not sure if those are monk strap shoes (which I've never hated), but I don't like these too much. And kellyt is right- not everyone needs to be cute. But likewise, not everyone has to be "don't [you-know-what] with me" tough either. Almost as if everybody has to be hard or tough, or those who'll say "cute is for kids." Just let your own personal style shine without having to pay attention to what other people regard as stylish or acceptable. Speaking of Post #185...
Another Nay! will be handed out to the shoes in #185. They aren't ugly enough to get a "Big Nay" from me, but I'd seriously pass on these. I'd probably like them better if they were a pair of platform wedge oxfords or if they were all leather instead of this combination. Ugly shoes, but not ugly enough for me to really lash out on these.
Dress and shop confidently!