i didn't know he was already in pre-prod, i guess in that case you're right and he can't leave. poor guy, it must be hell right now.
i def think rupert's marriage is over, with rob i can kind of see it going either way. you said earlier that you could imagine that once it's over for him that's it (something along those lines) and i agree with that, but i wouldn't be surprised if he gave her one more chance, he seems really in love with her. but a relationship will never be the same again. i've never been in that situation, but i can't imagine how you could ever trust that person again and with their lifestyles (he will soon shoot a movie in Iraq, be on promo tour) trust is so much more important. i def don't see them last much longer after this.