mellowdrama
101st monkey airborne
- Joined
- Feb 22, 2005
- Messages
- 1,322
- Reaction score
- 2
thoughtful op-ed piece from the houston chronicle:
I don't agree with all of it, and I still like picking on Madonna, but a necessary dialogue is starting to take place regarding the topic of international adoption.
Oct. 28, 2006, 7:44PM
MADONNA AND CHILD
Stop making truth an orphan
Media should track the needs of children instead of celebrities
By JOHN C. SMITH
For the past few weeks I have been deeply saddened every time I turn on the television news, or open up a magazine or newspaper. The media's coverage of Madonna's adoption of a Malawi boy leaves much to be desired, even though the story has been covered from the moment she set foot on African soil.
First it was speculation about why she was in Malawi. Then, when she confirmed her interest in adopting the boy, David Banda, the media attacked her motives, tracking every step along the way with bright-light headlines: "Madonna's Orphan Leaves Malawi," "Father of Madonna Orphan has Second Thoughts."
The media seem to play every angle they can, citing examples of past behavior that make Madonna unfit to be a mother, despite the two healthy children she already is responsible for.
There are spreads in the most widely circulated magazines displaying street photos of a number of celebrities with their adopted baby; Angelina and Brad, Meg Ryan and Nicole Kidman were mentioned to name a few. Every angle is covered except the most pressing one; that of the orphans themselves.
Not many articles mention Madonna's charity, "Raising Malawi," the nonprofit that helps children who were orphaned by AIDS. I read no statistics displaying the number of orphans in the world, or the number of Americans (not just celebrities) partaking in international adoptions. There is no discussion of any alternatives to international adoption.
The media have not researched the different methods of aiding orphans overseas, or the many American organizations that spend every day funding projects, drafting plans and raising money for children who are born into nothing.
Instead of criticizing Madonna for her choice, members of the media should focus their energy on telling the stories of the abandoned and orphaned children throughout the world who haven't been adopted and are still living in orphanages.
There are thousands of orphaned and uncared-for children all over the world; in Bolivia, the Dominican Republic, El Salvador, Mexico, Guatemala, Haiti, Honduras, Nicaragua, and Peru as well as Africa. Members of the media should be talking about this tragedy instead of the drama and heartbreak of Madonna's adoption of one child.
In recent years, international adoption by celebrities has called attention to this serious problem. Whole generations are growing up without parents, or face a home environment that is unable to sustain them in a healthy way, and are in desperate need of adult guidance. However, international adoption is not the only way, nor is it necessarily the best way of helping these children.
Funding and supporting orphanages that will keep the children in their home countries, near their remaining family and surrounded by their culture, is a great way to ensure the children grow and develop into healthy, contributing members of society.
By providing health care, education, clothing and food for these children we are giving them a foundation through which they can prosper and give back to their communities.
Members of the media ought not to be chastising celebrities and gossiping about personal choices; but discussing serious world disasters and strife such as the orphan epidemic.
I hope that as Madonna completes her process of adopting this baby, she continues to support her "Raising Malawi" projects and orphanage facilities around the world, thereby giving to the children she didn't take home a chance as well.
Instead of exploiting this problem one celebrity adoption at a time, I challenge the media to address it one country at a time, highlighting these orphanages where children work every day to change their position in life and become assets to their communities, while still remaining true to their cultures and cultivating diverse views and understanding.
By spreading awareness of these domestic facilities, we can secure safe environments where children can flourish in their domestic culture. America can make a difference in countries much different then our own, without the vulgarity or misuse of power displayed by the media these past few weeks.
Smith is interim CEO and president of Friends of the Orphans.
I don't agree with all of it, and I still like picking on Madonna, but a necessary dialogue is starting to take place regarding the topic of international adoption.
Last edited by a moderator:


