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As soon as I started reading that quote, I knew it was that Lanvin story, again. She's told that story many times, she should get over it after so many years. And regardless of how the industry has treated her, she got to where she is today with the help of it so she should focus on the positive things. I really want to root for her but stop biting the hand that fed you for so many years and got you the hand that's feeding you now. No job is perfect and I still consider her very lucky, career-wise.
 
Talking about models on social media...

I've been following Eniko Mihalik on instagram for a few years and could tell she's very self-centered before. But I started following her on snapchat a few months ago - was schocked and my crush for her is now completely long gone.

Numerous snaps of filming other people on the street and making fun of them (commenting their bad outfits, figure imperfections etc.), I felt really bad for looking at that.
It felt weird to see how self-obsessed she is and I just felt lucky that I have more things going on in my life than snapchatting my face and body all day...

Modelling industry really encourages this bitchiness among girls. Really sad.
 
I just rewatched the Abbey video ... http://www.thefashionspot.com/buzz-...aw-cry-backstage-at-lanvin-spring-2011-video/

She looked like she might have been in tears already during the rehearsal itself. I can definitely understand how after breaking both ankles she might not be able to walk in certain shoes anymore. Seems like something to go over when she's booked, but modeling is so brutal (in terms of respect for the models), perhaps that's not possible ...

It's clear she was upset, but she doesn't seem to be thinking of it from his perspective at all ... can he really have someone who looks drunk or in tears or about to break down walking in the show?

Also clear that he treated Freja differently. She had similar concerns about the shoes, she handled it differently, and so did he. Sometimes you have to own that your own approach might be part of the problem (and it's also quite possible that Freja being a star, and assigned what Alber thought was a pivotal position in the show, had an impact as well).

But I guess in addition to Madame Wang, and her minion CEO at Lanvin, there is a third person in the fashion industry who finds Alber less than perfect ;)
 
ugh models can be the worst, especially the ones that succeed.. it's like they're told over and over that they're so awesome and don't have to do anything, just turn up with decent skin and pose, so much that the moment Hollywood offers something, it's like a confirmation that they were too good for fashion and then they go down memory lane, remembering the criticism they ever received and resent it forever. They learn nothing about being accountable for ambition, discipline, humility, that if you feel something compromises your values or sense of worth, you stop it right there and don't wait until you have more money or a "higher" position to get back to them.. that just makes you look like your integrity is attached to that.. self-humiliation.

In other words people like her and Cara just come off as greedy, ungrateful brats, it's okay to be greedy, just be cool about it and don't make everyone else responsible for how far you're willing to go.

Some weeks ago I watched a video of Joy Womack at the Bolshoi.. talk about a crazy degree ambition, not that much responsibility but so humble and incredibly disciplined (link if anyone's interested).. maybe models resent the fact that like Abbey says "fashion is a creative outlet for everyone except models", but they also get the money most creative young people that sacrifice a lot could only dream of in order to achieve big heights, and certainly get to see the world.. if you know anything about money, you know you can save it and use it to do what you really want, just like she did, bet she didn't move to Hollywood with her savings as a teenager back in Australia...

Anyway, there was some criticism the other day about Nicolas Winding Refn (director of her latest film- where she plays a model of course) cause he claimed the type of beauty of the women in the film (blonde, tall and thin) was the only one he cared to display. It's great that Abbey Lee has graduated onto gigs that are so different from modeling..
 
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^ Nailed it. Although I love Cara's complete reversal claiming she didn't say she was leaving modeling after seeing how the movie industry doesn't quite have that instant gratification that modeling has. You can shoot a movie that may never even see the light of day, or gets released months to years later if it's lucky enough to get a distributor to pick it up.


And sidenote, they played Paper Town on TV and she was OK at best. she didn't hide the British accent well, she sounded like she had marbles in her mouth in some moments, and the acting was nothing to write home about. She wasn't terrible, but yeah, keep your day job, Cara.
 
But I guess in addition to Madame Wang, and her minion CEO at Lanvin, there is a third person in the fashion industry who finds Alber less than perfect ;)

:lol:

I just don't get why she's STILL talking about it!! I mean, it's done, she addressed it previously. You've emerged with your ankles intact. Mow move on! Is there so little narrative in your life that you have top rehash what happened nearly a decade ago? I actually don't have an issue with models mouthing off once they've left the industry, or whether they're still in it. It provides insight. But to beat on and on about it?
 
I don't know why she keeps talking about it, I guess maybe because she considers it her worst modelling experience and it sorta relates to the film showing how harsh model castings can be. But I think it's ok that she felt bad about it, you can even see in the video that Freja was trying to console her. I don't like it when someone says "get over it or leave" about a model having a bad experience, because while this experience may be trivial some models have had to deal with much much worse. I think it's ok for models to mouth off about the industry a little, it can be an emotionally taxing job and they're only human.
 
Talking about models on social media...

I've been following Eniko Mihalik on instagram for a few years and could tell she's very self-centered before. But I started following her on snapchat a few months ago - was schocked and my crush for her is now completely long gone.

Numerous snaps of filming other people on the street and making fun of them (commenting their bad outfits, figure imperfections etc.), I felt really bad for looking at that.
It felt weird to see how self-obsessed she is and I just felt lucky that I have more things going on in my life than snapchatting my face and body all day...

Modelling industry really encourages this bitchiness among girls. Really sad.
Oh, glad to see I'm not the only one to notice about Eniko. I've been following her career since forever and have always liked her and her work. But when I started following her on the social media, I completely felt the other way as well. I can totally see what you mean by "self-centered". She likes to show off, by always showing her "face and body", her expensive bags and stuff, and throwing lots of money in stripclubs. She literally snaps all of her life from waking up to the moment she goes to bed! This is crazy. I can remember a snap, it was a few months ago, she was traveling somewhere and snapped a picture with Asian tourists in her field of vision and said "these Asian tourists always ruining my pic". It shocked me!
 
I was also a fan of Eniko and stop following her some months ago. She sounds exactly like every other VS model and I was expecting a bit "less".

On the other hand, I'm getting even better vibes coming from Guinevere Van Seenus. She seems like the most caring, generous, humble, talented model ever. What a delight. I wish she posted even more about her art and her beautiful dogs. ^_^ My feed needs more people like her.
 
I don't know why she keeps talking about it, I guess maybe because she considers it her worst modelling experience and it sorta relates to the film showing how harsh model castings can be. But I think it's ok that she felt bad about it, you can even see in the video that Freja was trying to console her. I don't like it when someone says "get over it or leave" about a model having a bad experience, because while this experience may be trivial some models have had to deal with much much worse. I think it's ok for models to mouth off about the industry a little, it can be an emotionally taxing job and they're only human.

If that was her worst experience her job was pretty effing easy.
 
People need to tell "stories" to the press, so that the interview has points of interest, but anyone with a bit of sense realises this is how the game works, so they make sure they have a series of 'info bites' to feed to the media, carefully calculated to get attention but not burn any bridges.

What next, constant telling of complaints about the directors who currently hire her, not just a designer who once did? Working in movies can be as brutal as modelling, but no Hollywood ego wants a whinging model who might go on to blacken their reputation, just like they're so keen to do right now, to a former employer.
 
From Eniko's snapchat today, what's with Gigi and Kendall's age?!

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:lol:

I just don't get why she's STILL talking about it!! I mean, it's done, she addressed it previously. You've emerged with your ankles intact. Mow move on! Is there so little narrative in your life that you have top rehash what happened nearly a decade ago? I actually don't have an issue with models mouthing off once they've left the industry, or whether they're still in it. It provides insight. But to beat on and on about it?

Part of it may be that she felt she didn't have a voice that day--and that can feel very upsetting. But she really needs to own that the problem started when she was in agony in those shoes and didn't advocate for herself. Had she taken them off and gone to talk to someone (like Freja did), it couldn't have gone down the way it did.

What's up with this 'save span' that I can't get rid of no matter what I do? :huh:

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The only thing pissing me off about Abbey; when i watch and read all her new interviews, is that she talks like she was a teenager in the fashion industry, and how hard it is to be so young in it.

But she was like... 20, when she hit big? I always forget she's 29. She's older than Gemma Ward - which is weird.
 

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