for myself, i cant be pale. i actually get really dark in the summer, so much so that people think im native american, mexican, or mixed. i have brown hair and blue eyes, so its a great combo.
as far as women, i like any shade, pink to black
as far as women, i like any shade, pink to black
tans on other people, but have the super pale look myself. I probably *could* tan if I tried, but I'm blonde, and don't want to look like a surfer chick 
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