fashionkitten7
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I think the very important part which you're omitting here is the image she painted (or continues to paint) of herself. That precedes idolisation, imo. You don't blame the victim for being conned by a swindler, you blame the swindler for conning in the first place. People didn't just assume she was this super-being, she projected that image. And so people got angry when they discovered they've been duped by her, then even more angrier when they found out that the 'real' persona wasn't all that likeable to begin with. So the moral of the story here? Be yourself! Yes, it's a cliché, but it's exceedingly relevant when you're in the public eye. We don't live in the 50's where everything needs to be sanitised. Kate Moss and Naomi Campbell are perennial bad girls, bitchy and vain with abandon, yet it seems people love them even more for those very reasons. And they've got charity efforts. These two are of course the extreme in a way, but there was no need for all that charmed Cinderella tosh which Natalia told to anyone who'd listen.
I have never noticed Natalia painting anything of herself intentionally. That's what I can't agree with. If she did it, she did it no more than any other public person, who is expected to pose in a certain way. You can't blame her for being a public person, can you?
As to being yourself.. Well, Snejana is being herself, is she liked much by people here? And, I don't know as to Kate, but I bet Natalia has more fans than Naomi. So, 'being yourself' doesn't always work in your favour, especially if you're a celebrity. And, personally, I think if they all were liked for being themselves, that would be wrong. And, why do you even say she's not being herself? That may be the person she is in reality - kind and caring and someone, who wants to be liked and seen the certain way. Even if we consider the latter to be bad, the good and the bad may very well go together. In fact, they do most of the time. I myself, however, don't see what's bad in a desire to be liked, especially when you're a famous model.
Finally, why is Cinderella story a tosh? Her life story is pretty much a Cinderella one (or it was until she and Justin split up). Yes, she did tell it a little too much, but that's not what we're talking about here, right? We're talking about her personality, not her life story.




Those are quite awkward videos lol.