it came! it came! not 15 minutes after i got off the phone with fed ex (they had told me my bag was still in transit!) I got a knock at the door. there was my bag! who knows why their tracking was so behind- but i'm just so happy it's here!
it's lovely!!! the anthracite is very matte and just fine to carry for day (although this will mostly be an evening bag). the leather is fab and the lock works perfectly and because it's silver no worries about chipping or scratching. I'll try to post a pic as soon as i can find my husbands camera. yayayayayayay!
thanks to everyone for their help with this purchase! now i want more!