i feel like the last two statements about fashion in relation to gays are a bit misinformed.
skinny jeans are in style - yes? because they are in style, there tends to be a greater appreciation for them in a metropolitan area/society that has more access to A. money B. fashion. this is because in smaller communities, suburbs, rural areas, etc., there is less exposure to trends, fashion, and a broader view of things in general.
to address the "gay" thing - homophobia exists everywhere. why is this? because it is a plain, simple, and sometimes painful part of life. when i say painful, i mean ignorant on the part of those who discriminate. american's are not by any means the first people to call things "gay" or "queer." you canucks are just as guilty as us in many instances, but luckily canada was smart and prescient enough to allow gay marriage (my aunt and her partner were married in vancouver two years ago this march). so when you say american's are more prone to call things "gay" you're contradicting a trend that has become more and more popular across the world. gay has taken the place of "sucks" and similar words. in essence, it is the zeitgeist of the time that has brought the word to such a head - i try to say it as little as i possibly can, but it has become part of the common lexicon as a derogatory term, not even intending to offend a homosexual.
the fear of homosexuality stems mostly from religion. thats why when you get to these communities of baggy jeaned suburban christians, you find more rascist and homophobic tendencies. they perceive fashion to be an extension of gay-community because it openly embraces them. smaller communities tend to breed greater prejudices.
anyways, to get back on topic - kill city denim. its on-par with cheap monday in terms of quality and construction, though i prefer cheap monday (despite not being able to fit the jeans) for their designs and cuts. i'd suggest you try them on (as with any clothes) before you buy. urban outfitters carries the brand.