MulletProof
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chloeandhandbags, I don't think anyone has or could ever question your fanatism for phoebe's chloé.
moving on...
moving on...
Am I the only one who really really likes it?
Nope, I do too. We better hide before we get stoned though.
chloeandhandbags, I don't think anyone has or could ever question your fanatism for phoebe's chloé.
Nope, I do too. We better hide before we get stoned though.
Very true, Zazie.
Absolutely. Couldn't agree more.
I may not agree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it!
Of course not.
The only reason I used the term 'legions', was because I happen to know that there were many, many, customers of Philo's Chloe and the number reduced, significantly, after she left.
I certainly didn't use the term to try to intentionally crush your opinion, or your right to state your opinion - I really hope you don't think I did?
TBH, the only reason I (and presumably, also disco) responded to your post (#91) at all, was because you had made, what appeared to be, some pretty definitive statements, that I happened to disagree with.
Had you used a few 'IMO's or 'I think/thought's I probably wouldn't have replied at all, as I would have viewed them as your opinions and not as statements of fact.
Still, I hope you haven't taken what I've said personally, any more than I've taken what you've said personally (i.e. not at all! ) and here's to healthy debate!
Oh, simply glad that all is well.
You wouldn't be able to tell from this thread that MulletProof and I have disagreed just as vehemently over other collections. There is a lot of mutual respect despite the disagreement because we really do argue and state our reasons and points and not get into a personal tizzy, eg.
"how can you like/dislike this??!!!" territory. It's like this with a bunch of us here, I'm grateful to these fellow TFSers because they really *work* their minds and do their research when they post, not just "oooh, I like!" "yuuk, I hate!" stuff. This is what makes it fun as well.
It's also quite clear that each poster is stating his/her own opinion, own likes or dislikes, I never claimed anything I posted is *the* opinion or some absolute truth, so I don't feel I need to, or expect others to say, IMO or to preface every statement with "I think". You also don't seem to challenge those who post supportive statements of Philo, eg. disco, to ask them to clarify if this is their "own opinion", or if they're stating as if it's the truth, etc....hope you get my drift.
On the other hand, to say "legions of women think like I do" seems to be making more of an absolute, intimidating statement, don't you think?
To be honest, a good designer should be happy to hear positive applause but be even more attentive to criticism, especially if they are valid and make really good sense. This is how you improve and become more competitive. I'm a designer myself, in another field, and I always *listen* to the criticisms, some of them I find baseless, but others truly valuable. If a designer simply smacks down every opinion that doesn't please, nothing will be learned or improved on.
Anyway, hope all of us get the air cleared here, and can all get on with the business of filling these threads with all kinds of opinions!
Dare i say naughty virgins?